My son died 9/1/2018. My wife is divorcing me. I have 3 living boys. I need somewhere to talk about and document my experience. Hopefully others will empathize.
Most things people post about spouses and what theyโve done to hurt them resonate with me. Not because they are like my ex but because I recognize the behaviour in myself. Twitter makes me more introspective than I thought it would. #YouLiveYouLearn#Divorce#Divorced#SingleDad
@bagofnothing I hate to be fatalistic, but so far I am not able to make it feel regular. For me sure - but sadly I donโt make it fun and holiday feeling for the kids. But trying!
@DivorcedDad101@EmmaJaneStanle2@stilllearning2b I got beaten out of bed at 8 years old with a bamboo sword every morning I did not have school for workouts. Starting at 12 we would play a game where we each choke each other until someone passed out. I never won. That is the old school sensei way!!!
@DivorcedDad101 Yeah, communication is not our strong suit. For sure, based on my bad husbanding, any time we try to talk - it is seen as a battle. Lots of relationship baggage here. But regardless, I should do the productive thing vs avoiding it!
Reason Iโm separated #37 - after complaining on tweeter about doing food prep for kids when teaching school at STBX house, we did 4โs bday at my house tonight. As Im cooking, STBX fixed my ice maker. I complain about helping. She just helps cause she wants to. #IDontDeserveLove