Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.
I will never again pretend to be the easygoing, low maintenance girl. I love receiving flowers without having to ask. I appreciate unexpected “thinking of you” texts and thoughtful check ins. I enjoy forehead kisses and good morning messages. I like being taken on meaningful dates that I didn’t have to plan.
I want to be shown off, not hidden, like someone you’re proud to have. I love affection, intentional time together, and little surprises. I like to be loved out loud. I’m done making myself smaller to be easier to love. I love hard and I won’t apologize for it anymore.
pay solid attention;
an average millionaire is 40 not 23
an average billionaire is 55 not 35
the average age to buy a house is 35 not 25
most men hit their peak confidence at 32 not in their 20s
it takes the average person 66 days to build a habit not 7
the average ceo is 57 not 30
most people meet their life partner after 27 not 18
the average successful business takes 5-7 years not 6 months
most people don’t know what they want until they’re 30 not at graduation
stop letting social media brainwash you. you are not behind, you’re on your own track. live it ❤️
You aren’t going to be able to maintain long term relationships, platonic or romantic if you aren’t prepared to talk about what’s bothering you and give people a chance to address and fix it. Nor give them the chance to tell you when you do something to them.
I’ve known my wife for 14 years and I don’t think I’ve ever had to forgive her for anything. You don’t have to settle for partners who hurt you over and over
Generally the problem can be solved by:
-taking a long walk
-doing something with your hands
-someone holding you
-dancing wildly
-a body of water
-a fire
Birds chirp an hour before dawn and the frequency opens up the stomata of the plants to breathe. The frequency is common in classical music. Play classical to your plants for MUCH larger crops. Its called sonicbloom.
evlenirken insanlar aslında hayatları boyunca kalplerini en çok kıracak kişiyi de seçmiş oluyor. bu yüzden “love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit” demişler. aşka biraz da tersten bakmak lazım
I think having a lover, not a boyfriend, not a husband, just a lover who pursues you and cares about you and you're obsessed with each other but live separately without societal pressure is so elegant and very intoxicating.