It gets to a point where you’ve just got to stop correcting bad behavior and simply end the relationship.
Else, you’ll be in a constant loop of complain > reconcile > bad pattern repeats itself > complain > reconcile…
A coworker left a job she loved because her commute was three hours round trip. She asked about remote work twice. Both times she was told leadership valued in person collaboration. Six months after she left they went fully remote. She found out on LinkedIn.
when Michelle said Barack has “stubborn optimism” I realized I also really want that in a partner. Somebody who isn’t moved by life’s shortcomings but ALWAYS sees the light at the end of the tunnel. That’s a true leader, not just of a country but a household. what a legacy.
If you’ve ever wondered what security is, this is perfect
Emotional intelligence to know when not to chase someone who’s running from you, boundaries to stop being a part of the race
A secure person doesn’t tell you to stop hurting them, they let your actions remove you from their life
Being single is actually tea as fuck tbh cause you can date multiple ppl if u want & if somebody wanna take you on a trip, you can go. Imagine bein in a relationship with a nigga so you gotta say no to seeing the world, goin shopping, or gettin money from other niggas. Aw naw.