I knew I was an avoidant from childhood when if a friend stayed over, I’d wake up w this feeling where I’d want them to go home and I’d feel so put off, weird and avoid them the next day. All day the next day I’d just be cold and stand offish. And if they didn’t leave, I’d just get mean until they did. I didn’t understand it at all.💀
This may not be the healthiest thing to do but I typically operate off the assumption that ppl not really worried or thinking about me unless they express it. But I feel like that’s better than being one of those ppl that’s obsessed with being copied or talked about lmao
Having a job/career where you talk and communicate nonstop with humans, people truly have to understand that sometimes you just wanna be quiet outside of working.
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
Charlie Kirk aside, imagine the crowd hyping his pro-gun rhetoric. Then a shot rings out. In that instant of panic when they realize they might die by the very thing they worship, did the irony finally hit them?
My definition of gossiping with my man is ME doing all the yapping while he just says “y’all crazy”, not him bringing me the tea and carrying the convo. You ladies and your men are real different lol