The easiest person to take for granted is usually the hardest to replace. Why?
Because they made loyalty look normal. Because they made consistency look normal. Because they made effort look normal
So normal that you start believing you can find that anywhere. That's why many people leave good partners NOT because they found better BUT because they assume that can be easily found
The person you get "bored" of is often the person you'll end up looking for in other people
If you have that person in your life, value them.
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2- Create a private group
3- Remove everyone except yourself
4- Post and save whatever you want
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Midnight I received a call from this other dude, an Arsenal fan screaming his lungs out "we won, we won, we won". Almost tore my earpieces with his noise.
That time the dude, is broke and that's when it struck to me, football is the only thing happening in his life. He is living vicariously through "his team".
Why so many men treat their teamโs win like itโs their own?
Walk into any bar on a Champions League night and youโll see it. Grown men screaming, jumping, cursing at the ref like theyโre on the pitch. The team wins, and suddenly itโs โwe did itโ. The team loses, and itโs a bad Monday.
Thatโs vicarious living, and soccer is the main drug for it.
*1. Identity without effort*
Building status in real life takes years: career, family, skills, money. Supporting a club gives you an instant identity. Youโre a Man City fan, a Man Utd fan, an Arsenal fan. No tryouts needed. When they win, your identity wins too.
*2. Controlled emotion in a boring world*
Most of life is muted. Work, bills, routine. A 90-minute match is 90 minutes where youโre allowed to feel everything at max volume. The highs feel earned, even if you did nothing but watch. Itโs a legal hit of purpose and tribal belonging.
*3. Tribe > Individual*
Humans are wired for tribe. Your club is your tribe. When they score, you get the same neurochemical hit as if _you_ scored. Dopamine doesnโt care that you were on the couch. It cares that โyour groupโ succeeded. Thatโs why losses feel personal - itโs a group loss.
*4. Low cost, high payoff*
You can be a fan from anywhere. No gym, no talent, no risk of injury. You put in $0 and 2 hours a week, and you get bragging rights, community, and emotional highs for months. Itโs the highest ROI hobby out there.
*The catch*
It becomes a problem when it replaces real wins. If your only โwe did itโ moment is your club lifting a trophy, youโre renting meaning. Real fulfillment comes from things you actually control: your health, your work, your relationships.
But used right, itโs healthy. Itโs ritual, community, and a break from the grind. The mistake is confusing โwe wonโ with โI wonโ.
Be a fan. Celebrate. Then go build something in your own life you can say that about.
Learn OR perish!!!
Yes ladies, if a man who provides, protects and solves your problems everyday doesn't buy you a gift on your birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas, Valentine's Day etc he doesn't love you
Fixing a man who reads books by Dostoevsky,Friedrich Nietzsche,George Orwel,Sylvia Plath,Albert Camus,Franz Kafka and Murakami is not going to be easy.
Don't pay for Spotify, use Pandora
Don't pay for Netflix, use Tubi
Don't pay for Hulu, use Pluto TV
Don't pay for Paramount+, use Plex
Don't pay for Apple TV, use Kanopy
Don't pay for Apple Music, use Audiomack
Don't pay for Prime Video, use Freevee
Don't pay for HBO Max, use Crackle
Don't pay for YT Premium, use Brave browser
Don't pay for Peacock, use PBS app
Don't pay for Disney+, use Peacock
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If you are planning to marry a woman, stop asking childish questions like:
โWhatโs your favorite color?โ
โWhatโs your favorite food?โ
โWho is your celebrity crush?โ
Those questions wonโt help you know her.
Ask her THESE instead- and you will know who she really is......
97% of iPhone users are shooting at 12MP.
Their phone does 48MP.
Apple defaults your $1200 camera to a quarter of its actual resolution.
I changed 7 settings last week and my photos instantly looked professional.
Here's what Apple doesn't tell you:๏ฟผ
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1. Greet and thank the interviewer:
โGood morning, and thank you for the opportunity to be here.โ
2. State your name and current role or status:
โMy name is [Your Name], and Iโm currently a [Your Current Job Title] at [Company Name]โ
Or, โI recently graduated with a degree in [Your Major] from [University Name].โ
3. Give a quick professional background:
โI have [X] years of experience in [Your Industry or Field], where Iโve focused on [Key Skills or Responsibilities].โ
4. Highlight key achievements or strengths:
โIn my previous role, I led a project that [Brief Achievement], which helped improve [Result].โ
5. Explain your interest in the role:
โIโm really excited about this opportunity because it aligns with my passion for [Field/Skill] and I see it as a great chance to grow and contribute to your team.โ