Please have hobbies in your 30s, so you don’t become overly focused on relationships, other people’s availability, or what’s missing in your life.
Run, dance, read, travel, try new things, make friends, and fall in love with your own life. There’s so much more to experience.
Being single in your 30s is such a weird experience. You work, come home, eat, watch something, sleep and repeat. You don’t even have the energy to pick up the hobbies that once made you happy. No dates to look forward to, no exciting plans, no real sense of anticipation. You’re not necessarily unhappy being single; you’re just fucking tired of living the same day over and over again.