Being able to call on a nigga and actually depend on him is a flex. I can do it alone, but knowing somebody got my back and make life lighter? that’s top tier.
why does everyone act like assuming good things is delusional but assuming bad things is just "being realistic" both are assumptions. Neither is proven. you might as well pick the one that actually benefits you. Like???
niggas be quick to say “birds of a feather flock together” when talking about women and their hoe friends but when we bring up their friends being deadbeats, rapists, and abusers it’s “that ain’t got nothing to do with me”
Oh so now you’re your own bird huh?
i feel like u not supposed to debate peoples boundaries or their requirements in a relationship, if you can’t meet those things or don’t care to find a way to do so then be on your way
The first lie that they will tell you is that there are special kinds of women that men generally treat right and place above the program and that all you have to do is aspire to be that kind of woman.
Don't be fooled. No such woman exists.
Girl to girl: please do NOT monitor your man. Do not look through his phone. Do not look through his things. Give that man complete freedom to do what he wants and see what happens. In the meantime, use all of that anxious energy towards anxiously building your own goals. Focus on a meal plan to hit your macros, focus on a workout routine, focus on a skin care routine, get another degree or advance your skills to make more money.
dating to marry doesnt mean I'm dating you to marry YOU.. It means, Im dating you to see if i WANT to marry you.... thats a conversation nobody is ready for.
this man sharing a quote said “ as a lady if you are educated, financially independent, disciplined, and strong, then there is nothing left for a man to offer you except the way he treats you” and i think it’s fact.
I wish more men AND women would just say, “I wasn’t taught how to date properly. I’m interested in you though, and I’m willing to learn how to show you that in a way you can actually receive. Just be honest, intentional and teachable. I can work with “I don’t know how.” I cannot work with “this is just how I am” while you proceed to stress me the hell out