Girls will be girls. Her life shouldn't be derailed over such a mistake, she has a long future ahead of her. One mistake shouldn’t turn a young life into a public execution for everyone else’s satisfaction.
Unfortunately, I’m not a morning person, and as I get older, I’m no longer a night owl, so I’ve realized I’m basically a college professor during office hours, reachable between 11:30 and 12:30 or 3 and 4, or not at all.
They just rescued 163 kidnapped kids in underground cages with duct tape over their mouths from a human trafficking ring in Florida and it hasn’t been on the news once because it’s 3 white maga Christian dudes that ran it. Take all the time you need with that one
Both the Rocky Horror discourse and the sapphic book discourse can be answered the same way: not every piece of queer media needs to be about YOUR queer experience or be comfortable for you. If it isn't about you, then it isn't about you.
Let’s take comfort in the fact that the tenderqueers won’t throw any tantrums about John Waters’s work because none of John Waters’s work was featured on Glee so they don’t know about it