I decided I wanted to be a better friend, girlfriend, etc & realized that starts with being better to myself. It’s deeper than enforcing boundaries and speaking affirmations, you gotta really dig deep & learn yourself, address trauma and triggers, give yourself space to be human.
I realized that a lot of my need for closure was rooted in ego. I didn't want to think someone could just disrespect me and see me as disposable but the reality is, they did..
But that doesn't mean I have to internalize how they feel about me.