tough 🧸

no need

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

it’s not enough to just acknowledge major character flaws. you have to actively work at being a better person

[Madeline Pendleton @JeanGreige]

Getting older means watching people rewrite history that you experienced firsthand

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

this is so creative y’all ate

[silver-eyed witch✨ @_baenay_]

Obsessed with my Theodore from our Alvin and the Chipmunks collab 🥰💚

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

@bondedx that should be me!

[fresils @iFresils]

please, wear your nice clothes everyday. the special occasion is being alive.

[☔ @Whotfismick]

Me pretending to be okay with a situation that's clearly affecting me

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

you’re living my dream smh

[🇵🇸✊🏾 Baldheaded Demon @homies4horror]

some absolute baddie moved out of the apartment complex and left this box of barely used perfumes next to the trash chute???

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

so you’re married then?

[The Wzrd 🧙🏾‍♂️✨ @BiggerWizzle]

None of the woman from my past are married or in successful relationships so i know its not me 😭

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

you just sat there and made that up

[limonadier rei :-) @chemdawgrei]

new york city is culturally white in the way los angeles is culturally latino

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

nobody needs more trains more than southern queens does i promise you 😭

[Basil🧡 @LinkofSunshine]

If you could add one subway line to nyc what would be the route

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

@Loccdawggg and ain’t

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

people are so disgustingly biphobic like it’s insane seeing the things y’all say about bi women specifically

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

@jiggyjayy2 👀👉🏾👈🏾

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

Black girls who never fear getting “too dark” in the summer >>>>>>

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

omg you guys are insane what

[Aṅgulimarketing @antiviral_mktng]

Why are we destroying friendships instead of arriving an hour later than agreed? I feel like I am losing my mind.

[Tweet is the Work 🌷 @NoblestCalling]

On the subject of time blindness. I was trying to explain to a family member who struggles with executive function that there are ways to work around that. For example, I explained that when I make plans/appointments/etc I immediately pull out my calendar on my phone and put in the information and a reminder. He said that wouldn't work for him because he always forgets. That's how you don't forget!! Don't give yourself time to forget! The rest of us don't have some kind of magical brain that remembers and keeps track of everything. We have systems and processes that make up for having an imperfect brain. If you refuse to try using any of the many tools at your disposal to cope with the things you struggle with then at some point those things do become your fault.

[DeShawn Lamar @DamnDeShawn]

GO TO THE FUCKING WENDYS DUKE

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

disingenuous example. nobody cares if you’re late to a party unless you show up literally at the end of it

[half empty girl @meowingabyss]

Like sorry you think I'm a bad person cause I'm late to a party that's going on for another 3 hours anyway. I already thought I was a bad person before anyway so no skin off my back I guess

[MONALEO 🎀 @themonaleo]

sexy solange

[Lauren 🪻🌼🪴 @laurenhtexas]

I've found people get very combative when you say you're treated differently when fat vs. thin. People just don't want to believe that fat people, esp fat women, are treated poorly by society. Losing weight didn't solve all my problems but it did make my life way better.

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

idc about time blindness either lol like i understand it exists and that’s unfortunate but it’s not an excuse. you’ve know you have it for how long yet you can’t figure out a way to combat it?

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

idk man y’all gotta figure it out at some point. the shame you feel doesn’t take away from the frustration of the people who are always waiting on you.

[matargashti-pilled 🇵🇸 @dilrhubarb]

I'm so tired of lateness being viewed as a moral failing. I've been shamed for it my whole life because it's framed as "disrespect" (and no, it hasn't helped me be more punctual) and if I lost out on a major life opportunity because of it I don't think I could have ever recovered

[tough 🧸 @thealogy_]

& yea if you’re consistently late it becomes disrespectful because you’re literally not respecting the other person’s time. there’s no dancing around that