In Japan there is a phrase, shoshin, which means “beginners mind”.* This is the state of openness and that our spirit ought to have. Watts explains this in his book.
Belief is an insistence of truth. The believing mind is open to a new idea but opens himself to be vulnerable to having a mind that is preconceived to the belief and nothing else. If it doesn’t fit what was there before it cannot be allowed to stay.
We want our lives to make sense. Especially as men, we want a completeness, a fullness, to our daily existence. Yet this is a myth that evades us the more we seek it.
The more you put into being the top dog, wooing the woman, making the sale, the more the reward is reversed and it all seems to backfire. https://t.co/rNDvXNTbsO
"Moral universalism is a philosophy for men who have surrendered. They have surrendered their land, their history, their women, their dignity and their identity. They’ve become impotent half-men who deserve to be victims and slaves." -@ph2t3r
You are the Royal King, on ur horse trotting out from your kingdom, tossing out farthings and sterlings endlessly and generously. Free for u to give away and free for those townsfolk around u to pick up. (A compliment and a smile is freely given and declined too But gotta start
My own personal question of accountability, which I ask myself everyday: Who am I to not tell a girl she is beautiful to me in a certain way, in a specific light?
Why haven’t you made someone happy and cheery today?
Well… Why not?
* The great secret to meeting attractive, strong men (and people) is this…
“Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world.” (Eckhart Tolle).