@drstellanyanzi In a joint efforts, let’s all flood social media and comments with all sorts of complaints and demand for Praise. Right after this space ends #bangthecabbage
@msriri777 That was my prayer but it quickly turned into a nightmare. First heartbreak ever and I felt actual pain in my heart and fevers! I rebuke this for you 😭!!!!
“Give people grace . People change”
Meanwhile the abuser in question has neither taken accountability for their actions nor shown any real intention to change(sometimes even stating that their actions were justified and that THEY were the victim 😂🤦🏾♀️). They have most probably not faced any meaningful consequence for their actions beyond simply being exposed. Any behavioral psychologist can tell you that any (mal)action without consequence can reinforce repetition(no penalty = functional reinforcement for said behavior), perhaps with better precaution to keep it hidden, in this case!
Before telling victims to ‘forgive’ abusers because you think behavioral change is something that just automatically happens after someone has been found to be in the wrong😒🙄or assuming moral obligation ‘to change’ is some kind of human de facto state, first hold court with the abuser. Put THEM in the hot seat. Be sure they ‘have changed’ before getting yourself unnecessarily dizzy from trying to defend THEIR character, unsolicited!
@zapatas_mom Many things make someone attractive, it could be how they are dressed, a good late night hangout, convo, a drunk night. Someone who started out attractive and the more you talk it vanishes. 4/5 per year..do the maths
@V1vy_L0ve This is also a western issue mostly cos for many Africans, you get a whole name that illustrates your tribe, clan and gender. Not your father’s.