And when you pray tonight…pray for the strength to walk alone. When you rely on people too much, you tend to move at their pace and not yours. Remember your dreams should not be in the hands of anyone else but yourself. Don’t wait for people to push you, go for it yourself!
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.
I got a job. I got a home to live in. I’m not missing any meals. Bills are being paid. I got a car to drive. Family doing fine. I got breath in my body. It’s more than enough reason to tell the Lord thank you 🙏🏾
I saw someone I used to like tonight and he just seemed like a random flutterwave customer and i realized we are the ones that actually make people so important in our lives because when we stop, they are so random.
I like calm men. Men who don't shout or break things when they're mad. Men who tell you exactly how they feel. Men who communicate. Men who talk to you in a gentle, low voice, telling you what made them mad or what you did wrong but never blame you or make you feel bad about it.
You know what everything ALWAYSSSSS works out. It’s crazyyyyy. We don’t see it in the moment when things don’t look the best but then after the realisation hits and it’s so eye opening.
take note of the ways you lie to yourself to get yourself out of a mood. don’t rush through your feelings. if you’re sad, it’s ok to admit that. if you’re hurt, angry, salty — it’s ok to be that. lying to yourself about how you truly feel, pulls you further away from yourself.
one thing i refuse to tolerate is people talking to me in a way i don’t talk to myself. i speak to myself well. i don’t shame myself. how someone speaks to me tells me how they speak to themselves. and you can speak to yourself like that, but you can’t speak to me like that.