The older I get, the more I reach the conclusion that most problems within a relationship can be resolved with emotional intelligence and good communication, only IF both parties have the same intention: to find solutions.
you deserve someone who can’t wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. it’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
love yourself so deeply & genuinely that it sets the standard with the kind of love that you want to receive from people. it’s either they match it or go beyond it. but less than anything what you can give for yourself, is something not worth settling for.
respectfully, i don’t go above and beyond for people anymore. i meet you as far as you meet me, i speak to you as much as you speak to me, and i include you as much as you include me