I’ve tasted going back to an ex, and I’ve tasted trying to fix a relationship before it breaks off. I highly recommend focusing on your career, praying to God every day, and going to sleep before 9 PM.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
You ever sit and think about it…and realize the only reason it lasted as long as it did is because you kept accepting things you shouldn’t have? You kept being patient. Kept understanding. Kept giving chances. Instead of choosing yourself sooner.
I’m starting to notice a pattern where I’m drawn to men who pursue me strongly at first, but later reveal they don’t have the capacity for the consistency and emotional investment I need…
I never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman. And if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.