Lyarrh♉

Manchester United 🔺 || Olamide❤️|| Product Designer (Intern) || Frame Vendor

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

Orange looking nice on me🧡🔥

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

Mtn is just 25 but its network is acting like a century old ….

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@kenkenlewu The audacity need to be checked

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@Bubee_O Very well done!!!

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@kenkenlewu They have not born the mother that born your mother well (read in Yoruba translation) .. that you would accommodate him in your house

[izzyy 👷‍♂️ @so_izzyy]

Well, it’s your nature to question things, but don’t you realize that you’re lucky?

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@_VALKlNG

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@VikyInsights Congratulations 🎉… to you and your husband

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

…..in every word spoken, there’s an iota of truth.

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

“Being single is a choice for women” — lady

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@jide_gmoore Don’t hold back!!!

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Some iPhone users may receive payouts of up to $95 after Apple Inc agreed to a settlement of $250 Million in a class-action lawsuit over allegations of falsely advertising its artificial intelligence features

[T!WA🥹🇬🇧™️ @nobod3yyyy]

I’m 26, single, and living alone in a mini-flat in Ipaja.

Last year I interviewed for a “Content Lead” role in Ikoyi at ₦300k. After four rounds, the HR said in the final chat: “You’re our pick. You can resume Dec 4th.”

That same week, I resigned from my ₦160k job and bought a new blazer for the role. On Dec 1st: “Hi, we’ve paused hiring till Q2. Apologies.”

Just like that—no job. Rent was due Jan 2nd, and I had ₦62k saved. Oh Lord, what do I do? How will I survive?

I kept applying nonstop—four interviews a week, all virtual and data-draining. One HR ghosted me after I spent two hours on their unpaid test project. Another said, “You’re great but we need someone with agency experience,” even though the job post said entry-level.

What broke me wasn’t the money. It was the silence. I’d wake up, send 10 applications, then sit in my room till night. My phone became my enemy. Every notification made my heart jump, then drop when it was just MTN. I stopped replying to friends because “What are you doing now?” felt like judgment.

Christmas came. I told everyone I was working from home. I ate Indomie and eggs alone on Dec 25th while watching people post family photos. I wasn’t hungry—I was invisible.

I started doubting everything: Am I dumb? Do I smell in interviews? Should I just marry someone? Rejection became my daily routine.

On Jan 3rd, an old freelance client DM’d: “You still write? I need someone. ₦250k per month.” No interview. Just “Send account. A colleague of mine would be needing your service as well. I already told her about you but I wanted to confirm from you first.”

And that’s how I got my life back.

Job hunting as a single lady in Lagos isn’t just rejection emails. It’s calculating if you can afford to stay safe while broke. Job loss isn’t just finances—it’s your self-worth evaporating in real time.

No one tells you “You’re still smart” after the 20th “We regret” email. You have to be your own cheerleader when you don’t even believe in yourself.

Lessons learned: Never resign without a signed contract and first salary date. Verbal offers are lies. Being a single young lady means some men will test you—if the job needs dinner, it’s not a job. Lastly, your emergency fund is your dignity. Even ₦50k saved stops you from saying yes to trash.

I’m okay now. But I don’t wish that quiet loneliness on anyone.

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Your environment shapes what you believe- Lady

[Phiona Kyeru @kyeruphiona]

A coworker died yesterday morning😭.
​HR knew by 9 :00 AM, but they kept us working all day. They finally told us around 4 :30 PM, then had the nerve to say, "You can head home early if you need to"—knowing we all finish at 5: 00 PM anyway.
​This morning, it’s back to "business as usual." Some of my friends are literally sobbing at their desks, but they’re expected to work and be productive. No time to grieve.
​It’s a cold reality. Within a week, the company will have his job posted online. Within a month, someone else will be sitting in his chair.
​But his family ,his children will still talk about him every day,they will ask where is daddy , His wife will mourn him for ages ,he was the love of her life .
​At work, we are just a "resource" that can be replaced in a week. At home, we are the world. Stop giving your best energy to a desk that will forget you, and giving the "leftovers" to the people who never will.

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

28 years of loyalty… ended with a WhatsApp call 💔 From “best staff” to “no severance”… na so e just end? 😔

Is this corporate reality or wickedness? 👀👇

[Lyarrh♉ @therealmolabake]

@niyi_es @baysemarkets ✨👌

[Niyi_utd @niyi_es]

Most times, it’s not that we don’t have opinions,
We do

But we just don’t know what to do with them

Every day you’re predicting moves,
Convincing yourself you’re right

But at the end of the day
There’s nothing to show for it

That changes today.

@baysemarkets gives your opinions a place to play
@solana makes sure you can fund fast enough to act

From thinking, straight to earning.

[pulseby_M @pulseby_M]

If tonight is Laylatul Qadr, Ya Allah relieve every Muslim drowning in debt, every father struggling to provide, every mother silently sacrificing for her children. Open doors of halal rizq that nobody can close.

Ameen ya Allah 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

“Stop Begging People” — Writer Praise Warns, Lists The Consequences

[MumZee✨🇳🇬 @_DebbieOA]

First of all, Introduction. 🤗