having a man who is dominant but soft when it comes to u is TOP TIER. Like he's masculine but literally worships the ground u walk on. He gets things done without asking, reassures u randomly, clingy & obsessed with u, talks to u in a gentle tone & brings out ur softest version
Nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art.
The eye contact, the gentle touch, deep convo, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking a meal together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence feels warm.
I can go on and on about this.
I will never understand those who don’t want to get help/therapy bc they don’t want ppl in their “business”. Like, What business? Horrible life events that we all go through? The therapist doesn’t know you. This isn’t a highschool. Your a grown adult who needs help. Accept it. What are they gonna do with the info that horrible things have happened to you in your life? Stop judging yourself so much that you won’t even get the necessary help from those trained to help you and make you feel validated.
Someone expressing consideration & care for your health & safety is such a pure demonstration of love. “You should nap. Have you eaten? Go to bed early. Take my jacket.” Consideration is sweet because it’s someone guiding you to choose yourself. It’s selfless love.
venus retrograde ends this sunday!
big revelations in values, love, and what we desire from above.
the lesson is never settle.
you could fumble a blessing!