Moving through the 20s as man has been wild..came from being the one being friend zoned/ rejected to being the one rejecting. I've had women cry in front of me as I deliver the "We can't be together". And in those moments I felt absolutely nothing 😭
Time to re-find the spark in my eyes and the joys of what life has to offer. I think we lose so many parts of ourselves in different spaces and people to the point where if you sit and think, you can see you’ve lost the fabric of who you are.
Something God has been teaching me lately is that I don't have to force what He's already planned for me. My job is to stay faithful, keep growing, & trust that what's meant for me will come in His timing.
One thing I'll never take for granted is how God has always been there for me. Even in seasons when I forgot to pray, struggled to believe, or wasn't at my best, His love & faithfulness never changed. That's the kind of God Ill never stop being grateful for.
you have to pick what feels honest in your heart not what flatters the world. peace in your own home will always matter more than performance to the world.
Many don't like to hear this but likeability is a valueable trait that you can and should cultivate. Dress well, be well groomed, smell good, smile, be friendly, be optimistic, show love and respect, be interested in people, do unrequited things for them then watch life blossom.
A man loves everyday. He loves his woman even if his first love broke his heart, he loves his family even if they disappoint him, he loves his children, loves his friends. He loves his dog and his cat that never seems to give a sh\*t about him.
So men! Love, for love should never be buried!
I lost my marriage because of my ex.
It happened once.
One stupid night.
Years before my wife found out.
I convinced myself it was a mistake I could bury forever.
I was wrong.
God saw me rushing everything in life, with my own plans. So he humbled me by not having the results that I want. Instead, he made me start over again. But this time, I am trusting his plans over mine, and I've never been more at peace.
If you see anyone winning, however how much you hate them, just clap. People out here are breaking different barriers just to be on those proper tables.
There are people who have been written off even with their families. Those people feed on their own energies. If you can't support them publicly, please don't fight them privately.
Happy new week.