Katie'svoice

Finding my way through a divorce from a man who mentally abused me then abandoned me and our children.

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Last year I was working on my divorce, finishing up my bachelor's, and taking a break from talking to M. This Thanksgiving...I'm a week away from reuniting with M!!! I'm so excited...we have waited so long and now its here. Everyone, mask up bcz I really need this man in my life

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When you're an ambivert and your extroverted tendencies kick in... oh crap, my introverted side has done a terrible job at keeping up with friends the last several months....sigh

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M's week was really busy. We texted some everyday but not nearly as much as normal and hardly had any phone calls except for about 2 minutes each time. I understand that sometimes life gets busy but it doesnt take away the hurt from him not being able to find time to talk more.

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Nex is now 2 months behind on cs. We are at less than a year of starting payments. Sent an official like text stating due amount. Nex gave some bs story. I wrote and rewrote a scathing response. I finally replied with "ok". Sometimes #greyrock takes every bit of energy.

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Nex hated pretty much all songs about liars and fakes. I can only think of one he liked and because of the timing, I think he was using it to distract from him talking to girls behind my back.

#happilydivorced #NarcissisticAbuse

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@TrappedWife We are here for you! We promise, the ache will fade. Keep fighting through it.

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@roomieofficial A whole video with poop references in songs would be hilarious....

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HELP! I have the itch to call out nex! He made some lame excuses why he was unable to pay child support today. I REALLY want to press send on calling him out for being a loser...

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M and I knew each other from college. I had severe social anxiety at the time which led me to do some really stupid things to hide it. The other night we started talking about college days, I have now spent 2 days with anxiety thinking about all the stupid things I did.

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@HeSays2me Do you have kids/teens? Even with knowledge of gun safety accidents happen. Sooo dangerous!

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@HeSays2me Maybe give them a chose of 2 meals like you would a small child if hes going to be such an ass.

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Time but I keep wondering wht he just didnt tell me he had some personal issue....maybe I didnt listen. Maybe I was so wrapped up in my divorce and school that i was oblivious. Idk if its worth bringing up.

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So about 9-10 months ago I was very aware that M (the one who got away) was not telling me something.

It turns out my intuition was correct. Unfortunately he was going through a very rough patch which he didnt share until 3 or 4 months ago. I get that we were not close at that

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@truelovescam We have kids together. Not possible to disappear completely.

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Nex deleted is fb(which I had blocked anyways) and has now asked to follow my Instagram.

Welcome to request purgatory....

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When did you realize your nex was a narcissist?

A year and 2 months of not physically seeing each other, which turned into 2 1/2 months not talking.

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@s_hepzibah Mine drained my savings and made me believe it was necessary. We lived paycheck to paycheck and then finally evicted for non payment. Turns out he was working shady side jobs behind my back instead of an actual job. I took on debt for him too.

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My new journey starts next week. Finally got the official offer letter on Monday. Its overwhelming to work everything out being I need to move 5 hours away. Trying to remind myself not to feel hopeless and keep persevering.

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@sociopathlover It took 2 1/2 years but I'm finally getting there. I am completely apathetic of my nex. Unfortunately, cannot go 100% no contact because of 2 kids.