I’ll likely never post about this again, but I felt compelled as someone many young women look up to and often misunderstand.
I love my husband.
I love my independence.
I love being a CEO.
But more than anything, I love love.
Somehow we’ve been told we have to choose:
Be strong or be soft.
Be ambitious or be nurturing.
Be independent or value men.
But the truth is, the most fulfilled women I know live on the AND, not the OR.
I want to build companies, lead teams, land make big decisions all day and I also want to come home, let my husband make decisions and cook for him because it brings me joy and comfort.
That duality doesn’t make me less. It makes me a human.
Being independent is empowering… but dependence (the healthy kind) is what creates closeness.
It’s what builds trust, connection, and a life that’s bigger than what you can do alone.
Somewhere along the way, hyper-individual culture convinced us that needing no one was the ultimate achievement.
That being self-sufficient in every area was the goal.
But that mindset the one that keeps you guarded, controlled, relentlessly “strong” is the exact energy that can quickly erode your relationship.
At work, that energy makes you extraordinarily successful.
At home, it makes you intolerable.
I see so many women struggling with this not because they’re wrong, but because no one ever taught them the tools to thrive in BOTH spaces.
An adaptive trait at work, is often maladaptive at home.
Meanwhile, a lot of girls are busy trying to impress other girls on IG… polishing an image instead of building a life.
Somehow it became “uncool” to love men, appreciate them, depend on them, or let them be what they want to be.
Unfiltered truth: If you refuse to depend on your man for anything, you remove the very thing most men find meaning in to provide, protect, and build something with you.
Not because you’re weak.
But because you’re worth providing for.
And men feel this deeply … even when they don’t say it.
Women feel it too the desire to contribute in ways that aren’t measured in dollars, but in presence, warmth, and care.
This isn’t about choosing tradition or modernity and it is NOT about choosing men over yourself.
It’s about the courage to want a life that includes both strength and softness, ambition and partnership, independence and interdependence.
I love my independence.
I love my husband.
But the real power .. or even *magic* is choosing a life where both can exist without canceling each other out.
A life where love isn’t a threat to your strength but the very thing that makes you stronger.
You don’t lose discipline all at once. It slips away in small negotiations; five more minutes, one skipped task, one delayed decision. Each moment feels harmless, but the brain records it as proof that comfort wins. Rebuilding discipline starts with catching those whispers.
CANADA IS UNABLE TO PROTECT ITSELF
While some Jeet was hijacking a fucking Cessna 187 yesterday at YVR, 2 U.S. fighters snapped to intercept.
Where were our fighters from Comox?
UNDER REPAIR.
Most sales don't get closed because the salesman secretly doesn't think the prospect should buy it.
Subconscious mind easily picks it up. You end up getting endless objections thrown at you as a result.
Opposite also happens.
Lots of sales get closed because the salesmen genuinely believes in his heart of hearts that the prospect should buy it.
Like every other race on the planet I believe white people deserve to be respected as the indigenous people of their native lands.
We can’t kick the un contacted tribes out of the Amazon or the Cook Islands Maori out of Rarotonga but the Irish don’t have a right to Ireland?
🇮🇪.
a hard truth:
you could have a better life
but that would mean doing things you don’t want to do
and you're addicted to comfort and allergic to discipline
so instead, you intellectualize your stagnation
blame your shortcomings on others
and cope by calling it a political stance
if one more person tells me “capitalism is making people starve” i’m going to lose it
the poorest people in America are literally gigantic. like medically unexplainable balloon-shaped and built like refrigerators. we’re not dealing with famine—we’re dealing with doorways having to be widened
have you seen what capitalism gives broke people in this country???
you can wake up at 2pm, take your government-subsidized Ozempic with a 3,000 calorie $9 “coffee” milkshake from Starbucks, get driven to Target in an air-conditioned car you don’t own, buy 40 pounds of seed oils and corn syrup with an EBT card, tap pay on your iPhone, and then go home and watch Netflix while you suck your vape in a recliner until the next time you’re ready to shovel food into that nasty mouth hole
your shampoo has biotin. your snacks come in resealable zip pouches. your cats eat grain-free. your dog wears a thunder shirt. you’ve got twelve $7 body washes for different moods. your teeth are rotting from Mountain Dew. your fridge dispenses crushed ice. you have a bluetooth air fryer that makes chicken nuggets shaped like Paw Patrol characters. you’re on six medications and still have the nerve to say the system is failing you
you don’t cook. you don’t walk. you don’t build. you don’t fix. and yet your lifestyle—degrading as it is—is still propped up by diesel engines, shipping containers, water treatment plants, and a thousand invisible laborers you’ll never meet
capitalism isn’t making you starve. it’s keeping you alive in spite of yourself
it gave you DoorDash. it gave you weed delivery. it gave you plus-size lingerie and mental health apps that send you push notifications like “you’re doing great sweetie” even though you’re a fucking emotionally unregulated lunatic. it gave you multiple streaming services to distract you from your own shitty choices. and you’re mad because it didn’t also give you meaning???
capitalism didn’t fail you. it cushioned your fall. it wrapped it in cheese, deep fried it, and let you finance it at 17% APR
but the most ungrateful part is: the system is still carrying your ass
on a reinforced mobility scooter
through the Walmart
to buy more of that trash you call food
take away profit and by day four of your revolution you’ll be shitting in a bucket and trading hot cheetos for insulin in a parking lot
SHUT THE FUCK UP
🇨🇦 has 1.4 TRILLION cubic feet of natural gas
Selling it to Asia would cut 6.3 BILLION tons of CO2 per year
🇨🇦 only emits 705 million
We could be 10x below net zero
Ottawa doesn’t like that kind of math
Let’s block pipelines & raise your taxes instead
https://t.co/W0ajEauZMF
CANADA NEEDS TO PAY ATTENTION TO PORTUGAL:
IMMIGRATION IS OUT OF CONTROL.
NEW PROPOSED LAW:
- You MUST be a resident for 10 years before citizenship consideration
- Must now pass tests on language, culture and democratic values
- Stricter family‑reunification rules and eligible job‑seeker visas set high bar
Nothing about this is controversial.
THIS IS COMMON SENSE.
Alberta is Canada’s secret weapon.
But most people miss it.
While Ontario gets the headlines and BC gets the lifestyle hype…
Alberta powers the nation.
Here’s why the country can't afford to lose us:
Every depressed and lost person has one thing in common.
They don't DO anything.
Ridiculous amounts of people just intellectuallize life without ever doing anything.
Drives you insane.
Would not recommend.
Zohran Mamdani is campaigning on a platform with race-based policy.
This is racial discrimination.
Racial discrimination against white people is also discrimination.
You don’t end discrimination by changing who you discriminate against.
You end it by not discriminating.
@ZubyMusic Low birth rate was the primary factor in the fall of Rome and all civilizations that enjoyed an extended period of prosperity with no serious external threats.
Shockingly overlooked by most historians.