i will no longer share my past with people because i have been taught repeatedly that even if they know the trauma you have been through they will, without hesitation, cause more. then it’s just wasted words
Regular parents: “let’s just clean up this cut and give you a kiss better.”
Farm parents: “this is pure iodine and it’s going to hurt worse than the moment you cut yourself so hold still.”
Hey so, as we move into shittier weather… just a quick PSA.
If you are losing traction, slowly let your foot off the gas, steer in a safe direction as best you can until you come to a stop OR regain traction, and do NOT hit your brakes. The last one is so incredibly important.
Hey have you ever thought that maybe you feel empty and unfulfilled and have neck and back pain and a general sense of whatever because you spend 8 hours a day slumped at a desk doing mindless typing and tasks for someone else in an office with fluorescent yellow lighting and little to no sunlight or actual air flow or sounds other than typing and you speak to almost nobody and if you do it’s about the above mentioned mindless tasks or other work related things and then you sit in traffic to go home to maybe hit a workout or make dinner and then you just sit there and find something else to do while all you think about is having to wake up and do everything you were so excited to escape for a few hours in the evening all over again?
Did you guys know that it takes someone approximately 7 attempts before they permanently leave an abusive partner? I just wanted to share this in case anyone on my TL is struggling today. You’re doing great. I’m rooting for you.