The more you blame others, the more you take away your own power to affect the situation.
Blaming yourself, taking responsibility, means we can do something about it. The moment you externalise responsibility is the moment you surrender yourself to the mercy of circumstances.
Talk slowly.
Remain calm.
Let them speak first.
Respond, don't react.
Pause between ideas.
Hear more, speak less.
Don't cut off their speech.
Communicate confidently.
Avoid engaging in slander.
Don't just listen, understand.
Be bold and direct.
If you want something, go get it.
If you like that girl, go ask her out.
Assertiveness always beats passivity.
Never waste time beating around the bush.
I **ONLY** BELIEVE IN STUDIES THAT REAFFIRM WHAT I WANT TO BE TRUE:
HAVING
“USEFUL BELIEFS”
IS FAR BETTER THAN HAVING
“CORRECT BELIEFS”
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW POWERFUL YOUR MIND IS, AND THE EXTENT TO WHICH YOUR WILL + BELIEFS DOMINATES OBJECTIVE REALITY.
Absolutely the fuck not.
“Suffer as much as you can” is no different to “make things as difficult as possible”
Placing suffering as a virtue, rather than a necessary part of the process, puts it on a pedestal to be chased. We don’t want that. We only care about getting results.
Be an absolute savage when it comes to your mission. If your a man in your 20s and you want a fam you cant afford to fk around. Get your shit together. Its difficult to have a solid family unit these days. Build brick by brick,having a family with children will be a status symbol
"Advice" doesn't really exist.
Souls do, tho.
Main way advice works is for you to ignore your soul.
Miming the way some other guy acts/thinks.
Guy says:
"Don't do this, b/c if you do, then bad stuff happens."
That's autobiography.
HIS soul lesson - not necessarily yours.