@tboseZA As hard as it is, sometimes we need to accept that family is family merely because of relation. I really hope you’re able to build something for you and your family with the new job🙏🏾
@tboseZA Gym comes with some “pain” which can help numb the heartbreak for a while. It also helps with endurance. Church on the other hand gives you hope 🤷🏾♀️
People with ADHD have what’s called an “interest-based nervous system.” They literally can’t force themselves to care about things that bore them. It’s not a choice. It’s not willpower. Their brains physically won’t produce the neurochemicals needed to engage unless something triggers interest, urgency, novelty, or challenge.
@tboseZA Part of raising a boy is accepting that at some point he will detach. As long as Auntie doesn’t enable bad behaviour let me create that bond.
P.s a boy will never turn his back from his mom if the overall relationship has been good throughout childhood
@tboseZA@DjClock Sounds like a man who made a commitment and is sticking to his word besides the circumstances. If you don’t feel good about accepting the money I think look for a place you can afford
@tboseZA Consider Karate, it helps build confidence, assertiveness & awareness. It also teaches discipline, emotional control, and self-defence as a last resort.