Not you people wanting to claim “private life” in a marriage. Health pre-conditions (of which an abortion is one), financial issues like debt, etc, need to be disclosed. Preferably before ring meets finger lol.
Maraji's point was so valid. You won't hear a woman's sister, mother and maybe even mother-in-law complain that they were up for 12 hours because someone was giving birth.
There's no how you want to paint this that doesn't sound very tone-deaf.
My biggest progression happened when I job hopped 3 times in 3 years.
Companies make decisions in their best interests - nothing personal, and won’t hesitate to let you go, once you no longer align with that. Be very selfish with your career decisions.