having hot friends and being single is a cycle of thinking someone is flirting with you only to find out they’re flirting with your friend but you already forgot about it because now you’re hyping your hot friend up
1. A lot of people would be much better off single.
2. If we nurtured our friendships more, we wouldn’t focus so much on romantic relationships.
3. You don’t have to stay for the kids. In fact, you’re causing them more harm.
4. Marriage is a business deal even if you don’t view it that way.
5. Your partner is not supposed to be your peace. They can enhance your life though.
6. Going to sleep mad at each other isn’t always bad. Sometimes we need time to process and gather our thoughts.
I have multiple concussions from abuse and rugby. I have genetic predisposition for ADHD too, and my memory + EF has gotten worse as I’ve gotten older (on par w/ folks in this thread). Didn’t connect it all until I read this, such an interesting perspective!
@FunFactsLulu I think it’s also the ableist thought of “your disability is your fault” (accident or injury bc of something you did) and he was shocked when he got his assumption disproven when you said it wasn’t (medical thing out of your control).