Atish Gandhi

Intraday & positional Option buyer in equity F&O (mainly in index options) in stock market
Other account-@atish_r_gandhi

[The married man @marriedmn]

Marriage is not for every man.

-If you haven’t mastered your emotions, stay single.
-If you can’t say “no” with strength, stay single.
-If your purpose isn’t solid, stay single.
-If your finances aren't fixed stay single

Because the wrong woman, in the wrong time, can destroy everything you’re trying to build.

[Morgan Housel @morganhousel]

“The best math you can learn is how to calculate the future cost of current decisions.”

[𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬 @mentormqsculus]

Man to man:

Women know exactly what they're doing.

They just hope you'll tolerate it.

[Kabir Menon @the_psyche_lab]

To the women who say they don't need men,

the state, the law, the police, the judiciary, who protects you, your assets and your inheritance, is mostly comprised of men.

So, don't need these too?

[Tai Lopez @tailopez]

Sun Tzu was right, a good man without strength is hoping that evil has mercy.

[Atish Gandhi @trader_atish]

@sandipsabharwal Anyone who has planned to leave job/business to trade or is profitable (at least past few months) should stop trading because majority retail is in loss?
Should they invest in mutual funds to give comfortable exit to FII?
If you don't trade why are you concerned about retail loss

[Mindset Machine  @mindsetmachine]

If you let people mistreat you, they will.

If you don't call them out when they treat you poorly, they'll keep treating you poorly.

[Aidan @aidannonx]

Women aren’t “producing” more. They are having their entire lives artificially elevated by the state. There shouldn’t be female lawyers or doctors or elected officials or CEOs generally

The government is artificially propping them up at the direct expense of men

Men are robbed to give women more, the gap ruins things. And no party wants to address this because it hurts women’s feelings

[Kabir Menon @the_psyche_lab]

Let's be honest. What do the modern women (below 30) really expect in marriages?

The more I converse with women, the more I come to the following observations:-

1. Most young women don't want to do household work. While young guys today have learned household work (cooking, washing dishes etc.), young women consider that as unpaid labour. And the work outside home (like driving, fixing & maintaining things) is still expected to be done by the man. That is called chivalry, and not unpaid labour.

2. They want to earn and have careers, but still want the man to be the primary provider. They don't marry men who earn less. They still want to marry men who earn significantly more.

3. The kids of modern couples are mostly brought up by grandparents or babysitters. No parent takes the responsibility of being the primary caregiver. That's the sad reality of today's parenting.

4. While women expect to be accepted for who they are (when they are finding prospects for marriage), the same women harshly evaluate men on their physique, height, hair etc.

5. After marriage, even minor disagreements are termed as abuse and toxicity. Women leave more marriages than men do, because the family laws are heavily biased. There is no penalty on a woman for breaking marriages (even if it's her fault).

6. Most young women have been taught how to be treated by a man, what to expect of a man, but almost none have been taught how to treat a man. While their column of expectations is a long list, the column of willingful responsibilities is empty.

7. Young women want absolute freedom. And honestly, it's a must have. Everybody should have absolute freedom. But, being married means being responsible about your freedom. Especially the irresponsible women call their husband controlling, if he tries to teach her responsibility.

8. There is another subset of young women who control every aspect of their husband's lives - his clothes, friend circle, financial habits, lifestyle etc. That they don't call as controlling. These young men have no exit from such suffocating marriages.

9. I see many young women venting that women are oppressed in marriages, although many of them don't have their own experiences, but rather they talk about their mothers. Many of these women enter marriages half expecting to be oppressed. The result is that they keep looking for cues of oppression in even the minor of things and eventually sabotage even good marriages.

All in all, marriages have become a very high risk, low reward institution for men.

1. If the gamble pays off, the man's life doesn't improve by much. His responsibilities increase, he has to be more thoughtful and conscious of what he does and how he does things. He isn't protected by the law if the marriage is actually abusive. He kind of lives a life abiding by his wife's rules - Happy wife, okayish life.

2. But if the gamble doesn't pay off, the man's life can detoriate by a lot. Financial loss is just one aspect of it. Most men come out of divorces broke, and having to restart their lives. Many of them think about ending their lives every single day, because they have nothing to live for. Several of them pay maintenance and alimonies to their able bodied wives (even in short marriages) and finance her life with her new man.

Women say, they don't want to marry men anymore. But, more than the women, men are scared of ending up with the wrong wife. Because if the marriage doesn't work, he has no legal protection. The state protects the women and children, at the expense of men. And that's the harsh truth of modern marriages.

If a man really wants to marry, for building a family, or for companionship, he needs to be careful, wise and judicious. One wrong decision and he will lose good number of years. And losing the hard earned wealth pains the most, because not only will he get divorced, he will have less money. So, his quality of life & experiences will go down. His willingness to live will go down.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

Women count differently than men.

A man can:

Manage 100 employees
Grind through oil rigs
Climb scaffolding
Unload 6 ton deliveries
Handle 25 meetings
Juggle 50 demanding clients
Pay 100 bills
Write 160 checks

And to her, that’s only ONE thing…

Going to work.

Meanwhile she will:

Unload the dishwasher
Fold a mound of laundry
Talked on the phone 4 hrs to her mom
Picked up the kids from school

And that means to her she’s done 50 things which then becomes “emotional labor.”

That’s why women count differently.

I mean just ask women how many men they’ve been with… unless it was sex, it doesn’t count.

🤷🏻‍♀️

[Mr Melancholy @chakravartiiin]

Growing up for men in society is all about killing your inner child and turning into an emotionless Gollum so everyone around you can use you without any guilt. Your existence depends on your usefulness like a slave you don't have a right to exist if you're not useful.

Having hobbies, expectations, dreams and hopes may make one non conformist and lash out at society which is obviously not good. You have to be the perfect receiver for the pains of others if you try to rebel you'll be shamed into submission or ostracized from society

You kinda become the martyr for society's indulgences you pay for the mistakes & frivolity of others just because you are unlucky. You're born in a prison and you have to buy your way out of it.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

All of the labels invented over the years:

Emotional Intelligence
Emotionally unavailable

Has been used to blackmail men into feeling lesser when, in actuality, it’s women who are simply projecting what they’re doing onto men.

They demand things from men that they are not willing to do themselves.

They are not willing to stand by a man when he has nothing.

Yet a man is willing to stand by a woman when she has nothing.

They are not willing to give a man all access to her life, her bank account, her phone, her house… yet they give full access to strange men online?

They put rules on a man in a marriage for how much sex he’s allowed to have, but in the dating phase give full unlimited access to men who they would not commit with.

You see, women are the “emotionally unavailable” ones.

Women are the ones who cannot understand that their emotion has no intelligence.

Men are built to fix problems, not absorb emotions or appeal to empathy.

It just goes to show you how little women understand men and vice versa.

[Atish Gandhi @trader_atish]

@WeekendInvestng Old/boomer/MF guys simply forget (or intentionally ignore) money in stock market is made by buying low & selling high (& deducting taxes)
There are huge folks who bought at high/mid levels & FII used that to offload shares bought at low levels
(Similar situation in other sectors)

[k @alfkkifine]

One of the most brutal realities of the male experience that nobody talks about is the absolute "affection desert" they live in. A woman can get a hug, a genuine compliment, and deep emotional support from her platonic friends on a random Tuesday. A man can go an entire calendar year without another human being touching his arm, asking if he's okay, or giving him a sincere compliment. We’ve built a society where a man only gets to experience basic human warmth if he is actively providing for a partner. Outside of that, he is completely invisible.

[Jerr @jerr_rrej]

Nobody cares about men. They are viewed as pawn sacrifice and war fodder. Men are told to give everything away and die for the pleasure of others. Expected to go down with the ship for the privilege of being born a man. This is why men must love themselves and take pride in themselves. Without pride, men surrender to everything.

[Chitra @just_chitraa]

Most relationships fail because women forget one thing:

A man's happiness matters too.

Not just her mood swings and emotions.

[Vineeth K @DealsDhamaka]

The Indian middle class is financially tired

- Salaries not growing at the same pace as earlier
- Caught up in EMIs
- Investments not yielding value
- Increased expenses, a lot of discretionary spending

Salary is done by 10th of month, and people start waiting for month end

[Harshit 🇧🇷 @knight_17_]

God gives absolute best lifes to low moral people and all hardships too honest hardworking people

[Kabir Menon @the_psyche_lab]

It's strange how the same old generation of men who oppressed their wives, are the ones who are making the gender biased laws.

It's as if they are doing it to absolve themselves of their guilt, and are letting the new generation be punished for it.

[YBCTooCold @YBCTooCold]

One of the weirdest Icks women have is a man who is relaxing.

Women hate seeing a man lay on the couch and watch some TV because when one of their evolutionary triggers is your ability to acquire resources and when you are NOT acquiring resources (or at least appearing like you are), she feels on a subconscious level that you are betraying her interests.

If you don’t believe me, look at all the videos of women talking about how their man relaxing gave them the ick.

They live in a perpetual state of worry and cannot fathom a man laying back and not giving af.