Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
All this “Don’t reply fast”, “don’t show you care”, “don’t be a homebody”, “don’t always be available” sounds like a conversation for kids trying to play games. We’re too grown to be acting like we don’t know what we want. It’s either y’all want to be together or not. If you’re not getting the right energy, take a walk and stop playing games. It’s just childish shenanigans that adults shouldn’t even be heard conversing about.
The best dating advice I got from my dad was, "The signs you ignore in the beginning just end up being the reason you leave later. You know right away who's good and bad for you. Don't ignore that."