Queen Vashti 👑

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[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@CapitecBankSA I am unable to make payments or transfer money from one account to the other. We cannot experience drama every month with you, sort yourself out!!!!

[No filter Skin @NoFilterSkin]

You cannot:

​Work full time, raise children, keep a spotless home, show up fully in your marriage, maintain friendships, stay fit, build wealth, read books, pursue hobbies, serve only home cooked meals, answer every email, and still make the 3:30 school pickup.

​That standard was created to keep you exhausted and blaming yourself. Let it go.

[Sir T Shiimi @Incredible_Tau]

Sometimes you have to let a man go back to what he’s comfortable with. If he’s okay with chaos, inconsistency, and low standards, stop trying to fix it or turn him into something he’s not ready to be. That’s the life he’s choosing. Because the truth is… not everyone wants peace. Not everyone wants growth. Not everyone wants stability. And trying to pull someone into a better life they didn’t choose for themselves will only drain you. Let people stay where they feel at home. Holding onto someone who doesn’t align with where you’re going will only slow down your own growth. And don’t forget this, you’re not losing anything by letting go of someone who never truly valued you.

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@_ayola__ @callherthato La makatsa bo Ayola!!!

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@TeeTouchza @callherthato Alright time keeper!!!

[No filter Skin @NoFilterSkin]

Dear Black Women,

Normalize getting help. Hiring someone to clean your home, dropping clothes at the laundromat, using a meal prep service.

You deserve the soft life. Burnout is not a badge of honor.

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

Ladies you need to stop obeying men too much. Groov'a skat,o beya Savannah eo mo godimo ga tlhogo . Never let monna limit you from enjoying monate,the very same men o areng "ngwanyana o groov'ang every weekend ke turn off " is the same man o Tsamayang a ntse a batla ngwanyana wa 1 night stand wena ole kontlung. This thing yabo wife material gaeyo shame.
Monna otlago febela with the same girl he doesn't want you be behave like... Men will never stop gole tlwaela masepa until you understand that your HAPPINESS COMES First.❤️

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@CapitecBankSA @AngellRavele I am experiencing the same error, it has been going on since midday

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@sowazis @cozmino__ I am a boy mom and highly distance myself from this type of thinking...yhoo!!!

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

Sorry, but a man who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love him. I know you've built a future in your mind with him. I know you keep hoping he'll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.

But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.

[Tunde Lawal @tunde_naija]

Divorce will be more rampant in this generation not because love is dead, but because tolerance for dysfunction is.

People are more aware of their rights, boundaries, and mental health. Staying married at all costs is no longer the goal.

Infidelity is now more visible and more accessible via social media and digital secrecy have made cheating easier and trust harder to sustain.

This generation isn’t afraid to walk away not from love, but from betrayal, neglect, and misalignment.

Who’s Next ? 🙂‍↔️

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@ick_real Over and over again

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

Sibiya should've just requested a Dr's note and stayed home...

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

The fact that Nandi sees no problem with her behavior is just mind-blowing...#Nandiandtherev

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

Barbie doll Tshepo acting up again!!! #MarriedAtFirstSightMzansi

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

Why is Nelisa the one clarifying the whole staying together issue? Babygirl???!!! #MarriedAtFirstSightMzansi

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

Nelisa babygirl #MarriedAtFirstSightMzansi

[Queen Vashti 👑 @true_porsh]

@Siviwe_G Bottom line is that people are not paid, instead of wanting to be seen as a saint in this equation, how about you follow up and provide feedback from that Department?