being able to spend at least 1-2 hours a day without your phone, doing things like reading, painting, dancing, taking long baths, listening to classical music, sunbathing, going on walks listening to birdsong only, praying, meditating is a sign of a healthy nervous system. the more hours you can go without your phone, the better. give your brain and your body time to relax, unclench. romanticize it as if you’re living in the 90s.
i’ve been letting myself be more imperfect lately and not people pleasing and giving grace when i fall short, despite my efforts, and it’s stripping this odd, glorified outlook i had of a “good person.” as long as i’m accountable, there’s not much else to do but just — be.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
A man who "only has eyes for you" is a form of spiritual protection you didn't know you needed. Because a man with a wandering gaze will drive you to doubt your radiance, and slowly steal your peace and softness. Loyalty is a love language, but it's also a covering.
As an animal lover, you must pay close attention to the creatures that cross your path during your darkest moments. That is your spirit team communicating with you in the physical realm, every single time. When it feels like the world has abandoned you, the animal and insect kingdom will always hold space to protect and guide you. ALWAYS. Be open to it.
the size of your life is up to you. that thought should terrify you and thrill you in the same breath. everything you are not is a choice. every limit is self imposed. every ounce of potential you haven’t touched is sitting there waiting for a version of you willing to reach for it. you can have anything you are willing to work for. so go work. go take it. stop admiring the life from a distance and go grab it.
A Divine Woman is the muse for men who wish to grow, but she will be the villain for those who refuse to change. She is the walking embodiment of ego death. She has rebuilt herself over and over again. Weak men are threatened by her, strong men are inspired.
I love being as lonely as I am because it's made me attuned to the smallest spark in people. I think solitude does to the heart what darkness does to the eye. Lowers the threshold at which light becomes visible
It’s true. Being in Love in general will intensify any spiritual work you do. Your magnetism (& ability to attract abundance) goes up, the subtle energy center of the heart opens (aligning you with divine energy), blockages naturally demolish due to Love’s purifying nature & etc.
my preferred style of loving nowadays is from a distance, like the sun. it's enough for me that someone can stand within my warmth and stand in their own truth at the same time. it's enough for me to be a flame, a shining light, a star. except for when i'd rather be touched .
These past few months have really been a test of my patience, faith and strength. I could not be prouder of myself for remaining loving & optimistic through it all.