Tomas Cole

Helping introverted men get consistent matches & dates on DAs (dating apps) — without faking extroversion & scrolling for hours | “The Silent Status Blueprint”

[Tomas Cole @ttomascole]

Women rate 80% of men on dating apps below average.

…and that’s because of 2 things.

1. Women’s unrealistic expectations from social media and f*cked up times

2. Most men don’t know what women actually find attractive, their profiles, and how they speak on there is actually sh*t.

Both are true, but you can change only the reason number 2.

If you feel like you are struggling on dating apps as a man, follow me and send me a DM with the words “dating apps”

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@Hustleorbeg7 Only broke men and weak men need to date rich girls - men who truly have money don’t care about women’s financial status

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@Dearme2_ Too many men are just seeking comfort when they are in a relationship - never stop being hungry

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@WhiteIsRight02 Even other women agree

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@Arubekind Being in a relationship that drains you

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@brightafia The gym was the starting point for so many man to actually start improving their life in many other ways also

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@lana_viss Till they die

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@TheManMakerx I think that is not the case most of the time, when a women had a promiscuous past. She will likely marry a man that has no experience with women, and he will get played by her that way

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@Thedrivenman To be honest, most of them are delusional, so they don’t really realize it

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@Thedrivenman A better explanation: don’t stop your life and your goals for her, don’t make her your number 1 priority

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@Veronwg It weakens you as a man, you don’t work towards your goals, and don’t also crave women that much

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@SeduceCleopatra It’s not that deep guys

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What does NOT work on Dating Apps:

- professional looking photos (CV type, work, etc)

- showing off too much (just gym selfies, only expensive cars, vacations)

- too much volume without changing anything (scrolling for hours daily)

What actually WORKS:

- showcasing a fun lifestyle

- showcasing a sociable side of you, interesting hobbies, also photos with people (tells her you are not weird around other people)

- having your own style of chatting etc. Not copying what everyone is doing

- listening to feedback

[Tomas Cole @ttomascole]

Most men on Dating Apps are ONE profile FIX away from completely different results.

Not a new more professional photo.

Not a funnier opener.

Not more hours on the app scrolling…

Just ONE thing that’s quietly working against them without them even realising it.

For some it’s the first photo. Wrong angle, wrong background, wrong expression.

For some it’s the bio. Sounds like everyone else or says nothing different at all.

For some it’s the prompts. So generic she’s already seen the same answer 10 times that day.

The fix is usually small.

The difference in results is NOT.

If you want to know exactly which fix matters most for your profile, follow me and comment “FIX” and I’ll send you my complete short-PDF-guide directly in DMs.

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@FWPlayboy Girls don’t like men that are too serious about anything, even them

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@AlphaSeductive Actually is actually really attractive to a girl, if you show your knowledge, experience and confidence to a girl that you are dating or speaking to

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@MasculinePeak If she is in any way emotionally involved, that also includes imitating, then she is attracted to you

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@triplexdshott If she opens with you about “promiscuous past” out of nothing, run away as fast as you can

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@imniceandsmart “Kill” yourself in the gym

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@mentormqsculus Always have options, don’t rely on one girl

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@Man_s_Bible and make some cash