I call it “a meeting” when it’s a waste of time, collaboration when it’s useful; a “requirement” when I disagree, a good idea when I like it; “process” when I hate doing it, the way we work when it makes sense. Probably too cynical. Too many mandatory backlog grooming meetings.
A prime reason people don't collaborate, refactor, or test is because they don't know how. A prime reason that they resist learning is because it requires them to admit not knowing. To be seen as non-expert is not affordable when your environment has more threat than safety.