idk who needs to hear this but you can be a kind person and still express your frustration. you can be a kind person and still lose your patience. you can be a kind person and confront an issue assertively. it doesn’t take away from your kindness. let your feelings flow.
There are two types of people that don’t care about you when you become a mom...the 1st type is completely absent from your life & the 2nd buys your kids vtech toys