Prophet Mohammad (๏ทบ) used to recite,
ุงููููููู ูู ุงููููุนูููู ุจูู ูุง ุนููููู ูุชูููู ููุนููููู ูููู ู ูุง ููููููุนูููู ููุฒูุฏูููู ุนูููู ูุง
O Allah, benefit me by that which You have taught me, and teach me that which will benefit me, and increase me in knowledge
Sunan Ibn Majah 3833
What the heart wants is what you really want.. the mind gives you a critical analysis of that choice.
And itโs then it became more difficult to choose ..
I mean we canโt close the eyes and just flip a coin.. at least not every time :-/