One thing that can make human relationships easier is understanding temperaments. When you take time to study how different people are wired, you begin to understand why they behave the way they do. This understanding helps you communicate better, avoid unnecessary conflict, and relate with people more effectively.
Psychology identifies four major temperaments, and they are grouped into two broad categories:
Extroverted temperaments
Sanguine
Choleric
Introverted temperaments
Melancholic
Phlegmatic
Interestingly, most people are not just one temperament. Many people are a combination of two or sometimes three. When someone has two temperaments, one is usually dominant (primary) while the other becomes the secondary temperament.
The combinations can vary.
For example:
A Sanguine–Choleric combination means the person has two extroverted temperaments. Such a person is usually very expressive, energetic, and strongly extroverted.
A Sanguine–Melancholic combination mixes an extroverted and an introverted temperament. This kind of person may sometimes appear outgoing, yet still have deep reflective or reserved tendencies.
So while we may be born with certain temperamental tendencies, our environment, upbringing, and experiences can also shape how those temperaments are expressed.
Understanding these differences helps us become more patient with people. Instead of asking “Why is this person like this?”, we begin to realize that people simply process life differently.
And when we understand that, living and working with others becomes much easier.
I was on radio around 2014, leading to the 2015 elections, Alhaji Lai Mohammed was our regular guest, almost everything done by Jonathan was criticized vigorously, then people accused us in the media of leaning towards APC, all we did was to hold government accountable.
The same APC members that called us wonderful for holding government accountable, now call us opposition members for holding the APC government accountable.
So many abnormalities are happening in this country.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a passport costs 250k.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a local flight can cost 100k.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a driver’s licence costs 45k.
A year’s minimum wage is 840k, yet a room self-contained in central mainland can cost 1 million annually.
Minimum wage is 70k, but transportation to work alone can cost 30k a month.
Do we really have a government?
Places wey we dey use 100naira go before, today if we no get 500, okada no go gree carry us.
Indomie and egg wey be poor man food before, don turn luxury…
Bolt drivers dey cry say money no dey reach for fuel, lol wait until their cars get stuck in erosion because of bad roads nd poor drainage system
Nigeria is fvcking you people from all angles, and we have idiots making excuses for Tinubu and APC.
Nigerians wake up!!!
@JoelAdyson@HarmlessHQ Keep wishing he is criminal, if he is, what is stopping you and your crew from effecting his arrest ?
Omo! see as i dy brag with my full chest , can you do same for your principal?
We wait sir
INEC has refused to issue Permanent Voter Cards (PVCs) to newly registered voters.
Every move appears calculated to frustrate voters and make it harder for Nigerians to exercise their constitutional right to vote.
We cannot remain silent. INEC must be held accountable, and Nigerians must demand transparency and the release of voters’ cards.
A peaceful, lawful demonstration at INEC offices may be necessary to make our voices heard.
Dear Christian girlies the reward of your sexual purity is not marriage please. You kept yourself isn’t automatic ticket you’ll marry a good man. Open your eyes.
Dear Husbands,
If you catch your wife cheating on you, you have the right to be angry.
But you don't have the right to cheat back.
This is what you may wish to do:
Before you confront her, make sure that you give her whatever she ask for.
Take her to a dinner outing and make sure she eat whatever she wants.
Wait until he finishes the food.
Then you go sit close to her and hold her hands, rubbing her head and chest, gently.
Look straight into her eyes with a wicked smile.
"My darling wife, I see that you enjoyed the food, the dinner outing. But I must tell you this: I was not happy with you when I was watching you eating the food, because you're cheating on me. Don't try to deny it because I have proof (don't tell her what proof you have). Please don't do it again."
Kiss her forehead, pig up her bag and take her home and go to bed or get busy with other things.
Your wife will be praying that you did not do anything bad to her. She will not have rest of mind at all…
Do not confront her, and do not discuss it again, with her.
Her conscience will continue to hunt her until she finds a way to apologise.
While you’re waiting for her to apologize, continue praying for her and also work on yourself.