BPD and other personality disorders come from attachment trauma. Pushing people away, shutting down, lack of trust are all just symptoms. When humans don’t experience safe predictable childhood connections, maladaptive coping is the natural response.
@danissasaur I’m sorry😔 daysi had a beautiful personality and soul. I loved watching your love story bloom over the years. This is incredibly disheartening and I’m sorry for your loss💔
one of the worst things is when you stand up for yourself or communicate in an extremely direct way and there go an insecure mf who lacks self awareness trying to paint you as the villain. they try to guilt you and make you question yourself. it’s very ugly. you had every right.