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[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Some people only respect boundaries after they lose access. And even then, they’re usually angry about it.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

I'm actually losing interest in talking or dating because why should I invest all my time and energy into building a future with someone, only for them to eventually leave? It just feels pointless.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Genuinely how do people exist without questioning anything in their life? They go to work, eat, watch ty, sleep, and repeat without wondering why they do what they do. To me a life like that feels absolutely meaningless and I'm not falling for it. We are capable of much more than what we've been lead to believe.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Fuck a breakup, have you ever been in that weird stage where you're more than friends but less than a relationship? And then something changes & you have to sit there & watch that person slowly pull away out of your life? It's a different kind of pain

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

YOU LOOK STUPID Delete the targeted reposts, Take him off your private story, stop checking up on him, walk away he doesn't want you. All you are doing is sabotaging yourself. If he wanted you he would, One day you will be with someone who loves you so much and, think back about how stupid you were. crying over the boy who doesn't want anything to do with you.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

realizing for the first time in my life, i genuinely don't want a romantic relationship with anyone and don't crave love & validation from people. I truly, absolutely, love being alone and doing my own thing and it makes me so happy

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Maybe vulnerability isn’t telling everyone everything. Maybe it’s being honest with the people who matter, even when the truth makes you feel exposed.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

I’m learning that being honest about your feelings doesn’t make you weak. Pretending you don’t have any is way more exhausting.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

you can force yourself to leave toxic people but if you don't heal what attracted you to them, you will meet them again. the same demon, just in a different person.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

We need to stop pretending that deep friendship is supposed to be low-effort. Sometimes you will be a chore to love. Sometimes I will. We owe it to each other to love each other through moments of being self centered or messy or sad or sick. Why do we act like it's toxic to lean on other human beings when that's literally all we were made for. I love you I will stay.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

I need someone who knows nothing about me to observe me for like 30 days and then come up with an analysis on what kind of person l am

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

dating is crazy bc no matter how i approach it i end up traumatized. take things slow & date with intention? traumatized. be more carefree & see what happens? traumatized. stop dating at all? traumatized.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

The fake intimacy men manufacture to convince you to let your guard down is subliminally predatory. I honestly think they would kill you if it meant that they would still be able to perform in their graves. Your pity for them will always be at the expense of the happiness that was intended to find you first

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Nothing can explain the rage feel when I'm s3xualized I h@te it so much, I want to be admired like a piece of art not lusted like a piece of meat, I want to be called beautiful not s3xy,not hot, not bad I don't like being seen as a s3xual fantasy, Especially when the fantasy is me acting in "servitude" l am not submissive and will never enjoy being at service to a man. I want to be worshiped, or at least loved. I want to be admired for my looks. I want to be respected for my personality and creativity. I want to be art not a s3x doll. I am art not eye candy. I am not a category.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Boys get their heart broken once and do girls dirty for the rest of their lives but in the process of doing that they hurt females who are actually good to them. which is actually pointless because your not getting back at the person that has done you dirty your just hurting an innocent person.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

I really hope someone can relate and I'm not the only one who's realized this WHAT Is with the film industry's OBSESSION With male buttcheecks... it's like every movie I put on has at least one scene showing a man's bare booty... and I'm SICK OF IT I just wanna enjoy movies without seeing that on my screen.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Me explaining that guys crave male validation more than girls do and this is what makes them treat girls (even ones they care about) with no respect, All they want to hear is another guy calling them cool, even if it is at the expense of their girlfriend.

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

When things start getting a little too colorful and suddenly everyone you meet seems like such a great person and music sounds really great and you spend all your money because "you only live once" and neglect all your responsibilities because you trust it'll be fine and stop thinking things through and

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

ill never judge someone who starts out kind to everyone and then suddenly disappears from everyone's life leaving behind nothing but resentment and hate (we both know why)

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

Idk how to define my s3xuality because I like women & men. But I only find myself wanting intimacy with a man if I have an emotional connection to them. But I'm always attracted to women even without the emotional connection. But I also really don't like men in general like as a whole like I'm borderline misandrist except l usually end up dating men.