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My biggest lesson on people:
When you spot an outperformer, Pay them 10x.
Overpay them, make them feel special.
Steve Jobs said:
A-players hire A-players.
B-players hire C-players.
He was right.
But here's what he didn't say:
If you underpay your A-players, they leave.
Then your B-players take over.
Then your B-players hire C-players.
One A-player is 10x better than a good B-player.
And 100x better than a C.
Pay accordingly.
The best people aren't expensive.
Losing them is.
Inspire them and keep them.
VCs HATE this, but I'm saying it anyway:
The fastest way to kill your startup? Move to San Francisco.
I've tracked 47 founders who made this mistake. 29 are now broke.
Here's what the survivors did instead...
Two founders. Same Stanford CS degree. Same year. Same investors chasing them.
FOUNDER A moves to SF:
- $4,200/month rent for a studio
- $50 coffee meetings (that go nowhere)
- $300/week on "networking events"
- $120K raised... $80K spent on lifestyle
18 months later: $0 revenue, moved back home, $30K in debt.
FOUNDER B stayed in Cleveland:
- $800/month rent for entire apartment
- 2 college friends as cofounders
- Same $120K raised... $90K still in the bank
18 months later: $45K MRR, profitable, owns 100%.
The difference wasn't talent. It was focus.
SF founder was playing "startup theater":
- Attending TechCrunch meetups
- Pitching VCs who never called back
- Building for demo day, not customers
Cleveland founder was building a business:
- Talking to customers daily
- Shipping weekly
- Charging from day one
Every layer you add (SF/Miami/FAANG/VC/accelerators) is another distraction from the simple truth:
Build something. Put a paywall on it. Make it grow.
Everything else is bullshit layered on top.
You don't need to be in SF to make it in tech.
You need:
- A laptop
- Internet connection
- 2-3 people who can build (optional)
- Something people will pay for
- A Stripe account
P.S. - 73% of successful exits happen outside Silicon Valley. Stop chasing the myth. Start chasing revenue.
My biggest lesson on hiring:
When you meet someone exceptional...
Hire them immediately.
Create the role around them.
Great people are rare.
Roles are flexible.
I know a founder who hired an engineer who couldn't invert a binary tree.
Best hire he ever made.
The engineer hadn't touched LeetCode in years.
When asked, he laughed: "Honestly, I'd Google it in 30 seconds."
Most founders would've ended the interview.
This founder leaned in.
"Forget the algorithm. Show me the last thing you shipped."
The engineer pulled up his laptop.
Walked through a payment system he built.
Explained every decision.
Every tradeoff.
Every bug he'd fixed.
The founder told me what sealed it:
"He didn't memorize solutions. He understood problems. That's rare."
He hired him on the spot.
6 months later?
The math is brutal but simple:
The "couldn't invert a binary tree" engineer:
- Shipped 3 major features solo
- Debugged a production issue in 2 hours
- Mentored 2 juniors who now ship independently
- Customers thanked him by name
The engineer who aced every algorithm question:
- Quit after 4 months
- Couldn't handle ambiguity
- Couldn't ship without perfect specs
- Couldn't debug anything not in a textbook
He told me something I'll never forget:
"Google rejected the guy who wrote Homebrew because he couldn't invert a binary tree. That's insane. I hire the people Google is too broken to."
The difference between interviewing and hiring isn't complex:
Algorithm founders ask "Can you pass my test?"
Shipping founders ask "Can you solve my customers' problems?"
One hires memorizers.
One hires builders.
Stop rejecting people who'd "Google it."
Start hiring people who SHIP it.
The best engineers don't remember answers.
They know how to find them.
Today I met a SOLO founder who:
- Launched 7 months ago
- Daily $122,500 profit
- Does $3.7M monthly revenue
- Runs 3,500 orders daily
- Has ZERO investors
- Still codes his own code
Most VCs would kill for these numbers.
His business model that nobody even can think:
HOW HE DID IT:
He realized doctors are essentially "dropshipping prescriptions."
Instead of building another telehealth app, he built the infrastructure that lets anyone become the next "Hims & Hers."
His clients get: → The doctors → The medications
→ Patient intake systems → White-label platform
THE BREAKDOWN:
- Patient pays: $249/month for weight loss medication
- Client (his customer) pays him: $120/month
- He pays pharmacy: $60
- He pays doctor: $25
- His profit: $35 per prescription
3,500 orders/day × $35 profit = $122,500 daily profit
His marketing team recruits 30 influencers per new client.
Each influencer gets free medication + commission.
Result? New brands go from 0 to 300+ orders in 60-90 days.
HIS TEAM
- Solo founder (technical background)
- Senior engineer
- Junior engineer
- Part-time American engineer
- Marketing partner who brings clients
Adding 1 more engineer from my team for mobile app.
While everyone's building the next social media app, this guy found an unsexy industry with real problems and built the infrastructure layer.
Sometimes the best opportunities are hiding in the most boring industries.
Your CTO owns 15% of your company and leaves at 5pm.
And you're still wondering why your startup is dying.
You gave someone 15% of everything you're building. They negotiated vesting acceleration, anti-dilution protection, spent more time on the cap table than the codebase.
Then they started clocking out at 5pm.
After working with 53+ startups, I see this in EVERY other company that hires us:
THE FOUNDER:
- Wakes up at 5am thinking about payroll
- Takes customer calls on weekends
- Hasn't had a full day off in 14 months
THE CTO:
- Same equity class
- Slack goes dark after 6pm
- "I don't do meetings on Fridays"
- Last commit on a weekend? Never.
Same cap table. Completely different sacrifice.
Equity is not a signing bonus.
It's not a salary top-up.
It means you OWN this.
The upside AND the suffering.
→ Server crashes Saturday? YOUR problem.
→ Biggest customer churning? YOUR meeting.
→ Demo broken before fundraising? YOUR weekend.
If you want employee hours, take an employee salary.
Go to Google. Get your RSUs. Nobody will judge you.
But don't take founder equity and deliver employee energy.
That's not work-life balance.
That's STEALING from your cofounder in slow motion.
Every founder reading this, ask yourself:
"If I removed their title and equity, would I rehire them at market salary for what they actually deliver?"
If the answer is no, you don't have a cofounder. You have a passenger.
Passengers don't build companies.
They ride in them until they crash.
Then they update LinkedIn and find the next ride.
Your equity isn't a lottery ticket. It's a debt you owe every single day.
Pay up or give it back.
I hate founders who FIRE employees during their notice period.
And call it "common practice."
The professional courtesy only flows one direction.
Always has.
Here's what corporate does when you resign professionally:
Day 1: "We appreciate your professionalism."
Day 4: HR calls. "We're releasing you early."
Day 4: Lost a week of pay you were counting on.
Day 4: Manager never said goodbye.
Day 4: Years of work acknowledged by silence.
The same company that wrote "loyalty" in their values deck.
Here's what I do at Softaims when someone leaves:
Sit with them personally on their last day.
Give the most honest career advice I can.
Write real referrals. Actual calls to my network.
If they want to start their own thing I help them think it through.
Offer to be a resource after they leave.
Not because it's good PR.
Because it's the right thing a founder should do.
And because how you treat people leaving tells everything about your culture.
Not how you treat them joining.
Anyone can throw a welcome lunch.
The companies worth working for make leaving feel like a graduation.
The companies destroying their own culture make it feel like a termination.
Your people will remember how you treated them at the end.
Not the beginning.
That reputation follows you into every future hire.
Every candidate asking "what's it like to work there?"
Gets answered by the person you released on day 4.
Without a goodbye.
Treat your people like humans.
Especially on the way out.
Fire anyone who suggests microservices before $1M ARR.
CTOs are committing financial fraud with your runway.
And calling it "best practices."
After building 53+ MVPs I've seen this pattern destroy more startups than competition ever did:
Founder raises $500K. CTO proposes "scalable architecture."
Founder agrees because CTO went to Stanford.
Month 1: Kubernetes setup
Month 2: CI/CD pipeline configuration
Month 3: Microservices architecture debate
Month 4: GraphQL vs REST holy war
Month 8: $400K burned. Zero users. Zero revenue.
Meanwhile competitor:
- Next.js + Supabase + Stripe
- Launched in 6 weeks
- $50K MRR
- $86/month infrastructure bill
The brutal math:
Your "enterprise" stack:
→ $52K/month AWS bill
→ 3 DevOps engineers at $150K each
→ 8 months to first feature
→ $0 revenue
Their "amateur" stack:
- $86/month total
- 0 DevOps engineers
- 6 weeks to first customer
- $50K MRR
Same market. Same problem. Completely different religion.
Your 47-user startup with 14 microservices has more infrastructure than WhatsApp had at 100M users.
The one test for every architectural decision:
Does this help us get the next paying customer?
Kubernetes: No.
GraphQL: No.
Redis: No.
Microservices: No.
Next.js + Supabase + Stripe: Yes.
Complexity is not competence.
It's cowardice dressed in Docker containers.
Billed to your runway. Approved by your CTO.
A $200/hr senior developer is cheaper than a $30/hr junior.
Everyone agrees. Everyone shares this. Everyone is wrong.
Not wrong about the math.
Wrong about when it applies.
The math everyone loves:
- Junior at $30/hr + 50% rework = $60/hr effective
- Add management overhead = $75/hr
- Add communication delay = $90/hr actual
- Senior at $200/hr + 10% rework = $220/hr effective
Conclusion: hire senior. It's cheaper.
Smart math. Wrong stage.
I watched a founder follow this exactly.
Spent $500K pre-seed on 4 seniors at $180K each.
- Beautiful code
- Perfect architecture
- Zero bugs
- Zero customers
- Dead in 9 months
His competitor hired 1 senior and 2 mid-levels.
Ugly code. Shipped in 6 weeks.
Found PMF in 4 months. Just raised Series A.
Their codebase? Disaster. Their bank account? Full.
Here's the math nobody shows you:
- $180K senior building the wrong thing = $180K burned
- $80K junior shipping fast and finding PMF = priceless
Pre-PMF you're not building a product.
You're buying information.
The real math:
Senior at $200/hr knowing what to build = cheapest hire you'll ever make
Senior at $200/hr guessing what to build = most expensive mistake you'll ever make
Before PMF, everyone is guessing.
Juniors guess cheaper.
I've built 53+ MVPs across 30+ industries.
Startups that hired seniors before PMF built beautiful products nobody wanted.
Startups that hired fast and shipped ugly found PMF.
Then hired seniors to scale it.
Stage matters more than salary.
Hire juniors to find PMF. Hire seniors to scale it.
Never. The. Other. Way. Around.
Every CEO laying off engineers "because of AI" deserves to be fired.
Here's why:
These CEOs are telling the world: "AI made our team 2x more productive."
Cool. So what did you DO with that 2x?
You didn't double your product offerings.
You didn't double your market share.
You didn't double your revenue.
You fired people and kept output THE SAME.
That's not innovation. That's cost-cutting with a better PR story.
In 8+ years working with startup founders, I've never met a single great CEO who looked at a productivity breakthrough and thought, "Perfect, let's shrink."
Every great CEO I know looks at 2x productivity and thinks:
- We can enter 2 new markets
- We can ship 4x the features
- We can attack 3 competitors at once
- We can build what we couldn't afford to before
THAT'S what a magic button looks like in the hands of a real leader.
But these CEOs?
They got handed the most powerful productivity tool in human history.
And they used it to justify a smaller payroll.
The brutal truth:
If AI genuinely 2x'd your output and you STILL chose to shrink instead of grow,
one of two things is true:
Your market opportunity is too small to scale into.
Or you never believed in your own business enough to invest in it.
Both are reasons to resign.
Stop hiding behind "AI efficiency."
You didn't make a bold business decision.
You made a SCARED one.
Real leaders get a 2x productivity weapon and go to WAR with their competitors.
You got the same weapon and shot your own team.
That's not leadership. That's cowardice with a tech-bro vocabulary.
Nobody tells founders what a CTO actually does.
So they hire one at $2M ARR and wonder why nothing ships.
Real CTO work:
- Deciding what NOT to build
- Making engineers 10x more effective
- Translating business problems into system architecture
- Building a team that doesn't need the CTO daily
Not CTO work:
- Writing every line of code
- Configuring servers at 2am
- Approving every PR
- Attending every customer call
Here's the problem:
At early stage you can't afford someone doing only the first list.
The CTO who only architects:
- Beautiful system design
- Zero features shipped
- $23K AWS bill
- 47 users
- Dead startup
The engineer who only codes:
- Features shipping weekly
- Zero architectural vision
- Technical debt compounding at 40% monthly
- Collapses at scale
The gap between these two is where most startups die.
What you actually need before $5M ARR:
Not a $400K CTO. Not just a $150K engineer.
An engineer with enough business judgment to ask "should we build this at all?" before opening their IDE.
Someone who architects AND ships. Who codes AND thinks about revenue.
Who understands p99 latency AND customer churn simultaneously.
That person is rarer than any CTO title.
Worth more than any architecture diagram.
The CTO role makes sense at 20+ engineers.
Before that you're paying $400K for someone to have opinions.
Hire someone who ships instead.
Meta FIRED 8,000 people at 4AM.
Then went back to sleep.
This is what $1.4 trillion in market cap looks like when it stops pretending to care.
Here's the timeline nobody is talking about:
- Monday: "Please WFH tomorrow for safety."
- Thursday 4AM: Automated termination email hits 8,000 inboxes.
- Thursday 9AM: Zuckerberg's net worth unchanged.
- August: Next round of cuts already planned.
- End of 2026: Another round after that.
10,000 to 15,000 total cuts this year.
From a company sitting on hundreds of billions in cash.
Let me show you what Meta actually believes:
Engineers are not assets.
Engineers are line items.
Useful when cheap.
Disposable when inconvenient.
And the math they don't want you to see:
Replacing one engineer costs 50-200% of their annual salary.
Rebuilding institutional knowledge is impossible to price.
Destroying team morale across 7,000 survivors is completely unquantifiable.
But none of that shows up in Q2 earnings.
So none of that matters.
Here's the real scandal:
Meta didn't fire underperformers.
They fired loyal employees who believed the culture deck.
Who stayed through hard sprints.
Who skipped holidays for launches.
Who gave Meta everything.
And got an automated email at 4AM in return.
Big tech spent 20 years demanding unconditional loyalty.
And just showed exactly what they meant by it.
♻️ Repost if you're done pretending big tech layoffs are anything but a broken promise.
Every startup tech stack in 2026:
Frontend: React. Because Airbnb used React.
Airbnb has 10 million users.
You have 12.
Makes sense.
Backend: Node.js.
Because a Netflix engineering blog said it handles millions of requests.
Your mom is your only user.
She's not impressed.
Database: Postgres.
Unless someone watched a MongoDB tutorial at 2am. Then MongoDB.
Then a painful migration back to Postgres.
Then a Medium article about why Postgres was always the answer.
Auth: Copied from a dev[.]to article written by someone with 3 followers.
Never fully read.
Currently holding your entire user data.
Sleep well.
Payments: Stripe. Only thing that works. Only thing you didn't build.
Coincidence? No.
Security: Copied the same blog post everyone copies. Added SSL certificate.
Called it "enterprise grade security." Went to sleep.
Documentation: The founder mentions it every Monday.
Has been mentioning it since 2025.
Tests: Users find the bugs. Engineers fix them at 2am.
Same test suite used since launch. Called production.
The entire stack was copied from a TechCrunch article about what Uber used in 2015.
Uber had 3000 engineers.
You have 3.
But the blog said it was "production ready."
So here we are.
I fired a client who kept asking for "best practices."
He paid us $18K to build his MVP.
Two weeks in: "This isn't how Google does it."
Me: "Google has 170,000 employees. You have 3."
Him: "But I read this article about—"
Me: "We're done. Here's your refund."
This happens more than you think.
Founders pay agencies to build MVPs, then sabotage the process by demanding enterprise-grade everything.
"Why aren't we using microservices?"
"Where's our Kubernetes deployment?"
"This doesn't follow clean architecture principles."
Meanwhile, their runway burns.
Last week, different client:
$15K budget for MVP.
Wants authentication "like Netflix has."
Netflix has 15,000 engineers.
You need 10 paying customers.
I showed him Firebase Auth: "2 hours to implement."
Him: "That's not scalable."
Me: "Neither is your bank account."
THE PATTERN:
Founders read about billion-dollar companies and think they need billion-dollar solutions.
They don't need Google's infrastructure.
They need Google's first prototype from 1998.
Your MVP should embarrass you.
Save the "best practices" for when you have money in the bank.
Right now, you need worst practices that actually ship.
Fire the consultant.
Hire the builder.