Uncommon Love

A support space for Black and African relationship anarchists and queer folk. Made in 🇬🇭 with 🖤

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

One common misconception about polyamory is that it’s a “white people thing”. Ironically enough, it’s the current system societally enforced monogamy that’s white culture lol. Many nonwhite cultures are traditionally accepting of polyamory & polygamy…

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

A job opening for Ghanaian Queer Darlings 🇬🇭💚

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

Graphic texts produced by @EvitaSawyers

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

After learning to resist unhealthy entanglements and becoming comfortable with with yourself as a relationship anarchist, the next big step is to develop a way to deal with with rejection.

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

Even though it is heart bruising, learn to take rejection less personally.

[See Connie🦄 @owuraku_jnr]

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[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

Today’s non-monogamous reminder:

🧡🧡🧡 Be Brave in Love 🧡🧡🧡

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

Facing the excruciating, heartbreaking, mind-numbing, claustrophobic, rollercoaster that is relationship anarchy, only to be set off by hard-wired triggers from monogamy is so frustrating 🤦🏽‍♀️

[elorm @Ama_governor]

The fact that you can’t see that you, women in positions, fought for by women before you in fighting misogynoir, are being used as tools to further perpetuate misogyny against a liberated woman who is a victim of misogyny & bigotry will mark historic disgrace & that consoles me.

[Nana Ama @JustNanaAma]

Gifting the report to those who need it.

https://t.co/H3ydZ39RS7

[CHIEF ALEX @Fatshionistaa]

Chosen family.
The other day with the love birds nifemi and lekan for project CELEBRATING QUEERS.

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

@rantsandtots1 It is!

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

New polyam flag came out a few days ago🥳

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

@_kith__ Yep exactly that

[Uncommon Love @uncommonlove_]

OPP plus unicorn hunting plus predatory age gaps plus regular ole misogyny yikes

[Niccoya @niccoyat]

IS THIS NOT CRAZY TO YALL?? Mind you she’s 19 and they’re both 29?

[Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog]

#NewProfilePic to reflect the colours of the official polyamory flag 🎉

[Alex Miller @alexlmiller]

Is “polycule” going to be the Miriam Webster word of the year now?

[PolyDoe @Poly_Doe]

people think polyamory is a breeze but they don't realize the struggle of sending a good morning text to all of your partners and the people you wanna flirt with for the day

[Hello, Bees! @BeingGlori]

Oh, you’re polyamorous? Which one of you is a burnt out gifted kid with undiagnosed ADHD and which one of you grew up fundamentalist, and which one of you has more tattoos than friends and which one of you has a chronic illness and which one of you owns a snake?

[ParadoxFish @FishParadox]

Just a reminder that you can't use polyamory to fix a broken relationship. When two people already feel unseen, unheard, and unloved, adding someone else into that dynamic will only make those issues worse AND is unhealthy for the new relationship as well.