unless someone looks me in my eyes and asks me to be in a committed relationship (and i say "yes") i’m absolutely single. i don’t care how long we “talk”. i don’t do situationships around here. that’s my boundary and i’m sticking to it.
He isn’t confused, busy, or damaged he’s just not that into you. He enjoys your vibe when it’s convenient, leans on you when he’s lonely…but vanishes when things get real. He strings you along close enough to keep, far enough to avoid responsibility. You’re not his focus…you’re his option. But you were never meant to be an option. You’re the gift, the calm, the devotion he doesn’t appreciate. Stop bending yourself to fit his needs. Stop handing your heart to someone who only shows up when it serves him. You deserve the whole meal, not scraps. You deserve to be chosen completely not someday, but now.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
LADIES, DONT GO TO COBBLESTONE CAR WASH IN SURPRISE AZ BY YOURSELF‼️ a man in a silver truck tried to ask my sister if she could help him “clean period blood out of the back of his car” while she was vacuuming her trunk. pls stay save & be aware of all your surroundings.