A veces pienso que una de las mayores muestras de cariño es la curiosidad. Preguntar, escuchar, recordar detalles. Hay personas que dicen quererte y nunca han sentido interés por descubrir quién eres realmente.
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
This sentence from Carl Jung hits hard.
“No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you.”
@MarinaMurphy93@Stardate325858@WizardKOfficial@basichumanstf I’m gonna have to side with the guy telling you to parent better because what about the little kids who crawl under the bathroom stall & see me with my underwear down? It’s the same concept. Better parent your kids.
My mom modeled this type of behavior to me. She scoffed at women in public who clearly put time and care into their appearance. She would often say things like “who does she think she is?” Or “she so full of herself”. And it wasn’t just women in revealing outfits. It was women wearing powerfully beautiful pieces, especially heels.
It had a major negative impact on me that I’m still working through. I downplayed my wardrobe and tried not to look too put together or fancy for most of my life. I wanted to wear beautiful outfits that I looked great in, but I often decided against it because I didn’t want to be judged. I was doing my confidence and expression as a woman such a disservice.
If I have daughters, I will never put down other women who take pride in how they present themselves.