I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
Makanya kata gue nggak usah janjiin anak orang ini itu. Bener yaa.. people dgaf about your mental health until you exploded and now you're the bad guy for getting angry over what other did to you. Sehat-sehat deh kalian berdua, ya. Get a life. Kasian deh lama-lama.
Kinda true..
i think the hardest part is not just being abandoned, but being left by someone you were genuinely starting to see a future with. someone who made you feel safe enough to open your heart, only for you to find yourself questioning everything when they suddenly become
@clingyworm so true. overwhelmed by grief, fear, the thought of losing someone. it was really scary. kek orang gila rasanya. dari luar mungkin org liatnya too much but for someone who going through it tuh kek dunianya collapse inside
i think some people are more upset about being exposed than they are about what they actually did. because why is the person who told the truth getting more backlash than the person who caused the damage? the problem wasn’t the truth coming out. it was what they did in the first place.
if you caused someone pain, you don’t get to dictate how they tell their story. if you don’t want people knowing what you did, don’t do things you’re ashamed of being exposed for. the betrayal was in your actions, not in someone finally speaking up about what they endured. you don’t get to play the victim just because the truth makes you uncomfortable. that’s called accountability.
maksud gua tuh gini...
kalo belum yakin, jangan kasih harapan. kalo emang belum siap, jangan ngajak orang masuk terlalu jauh. and if u can't choose someone, at least have the decency not to make them feel like they need to wait until you finally figure yourself out.
@yappingfess pernah. awalnya kek ini anak kok gini ya. terus lama2 kek dia baik kayak peduli sekitar. lah ternyata di akhir ada plot twist nya. bener first awal
@kanatapaws raja iblis kerja paruh waktu. deaimon. noragami. sket dance. danshi kokousei no nichijou. natsume yuujinchou. kakuriyo no yadomeshi. my happy marriage.
Makin ke sini gue makin sadar, sepinter apa pun lo ngejelasin sesuatu, it means nothing kalau lo berhadapan sama orang yang egonya nganggep accountability sebagai serangan pribadi.
lo bisa ngomong sejelas mungkin, tapi kalau dia lebih sibuk ngerasa diserang daripada memahami kesalahannya, ya percuma. some people don't want to understand you, they just want to protect their ego.
@yappingfess percayalah kalau udh di titik semuanya ga mempan yg mana biasanya itu semua mempan. there's nothing u can do. just be there and get through it
@Whatawitch_h@keluhkesahkonoh tapi di situ tulisannya kaget pas tahu, berarti kan baru tau 😭 agak aneh juga pacaran ga pernah cerita ke sahabat sendiri. tapi bisa jadi sii cerita tapi ga pernah nunjukin siapa orangnya. mungkin ldf