Listen and think and learn.
Why was Manzi Nnamdi Kanu jailed?
Why was he given a life sentence?
While others who committed a crime to humanity are given slap on the wrist?
Only critical thinkers know the answer to the above questions.
For people who don't know.
are raising their sons to be like them either.
So, in as much as you will never find healing on a battlefield that was never the right one, don't forget that your parents' marriage is their cup of tea and should not spill on others.
bitter experiences. You have even unconsciously absorbed the pain and abuse of your mother and have decided to fight the world for her. Fair enough, but your father is one man and you're fighting an online war against all men.
Not every man is like your father and not all women
Some young women's greatest problems are their fathers who abused, subjugated and dishonoured their mothers. And that pain of watching a woman you love is deep, no denying. But instead of confronting their fathers, which they can't, they come online to type "first in my bloodline
When you're useful, you're celebrated. When you struggle, you're questioned. Many of you suffer in silence through disrespect, emotional neglect, false accusations, financial pressure, sexless marriages and loneliness while being expected to remain strong.
Society talks about what men should give, but rarely asks what men need. You should stay what you need clearly and demand it. Your marriage should not be a place where you are only valued for the service you render. You deserve respect, appreciation and a voice.
One reasons we can't get better as a nation is that a lot of us feed from the corrupt practices going on in the country. Then, the rest of us, somewhere deep down are waiting for when it will be our turn. We don't want to ruin anything till we get a share of our national cake.
If you know the depths men go for the women they love, you will know that they know what they are doing in every of their relationships. You're probably not the one.