If you survived dating someone with avoidant attachment, congratulations you’ve basically unlocked emotional Navy SEAL training. Nothing in life can hurt you now. 🤣
Letter from a secure to an avoidant attachment
"My love,
I never asked you to be perfect, only present. But every time I got too close, you pulled away. I wanted to build something steady, something safe—but love can’t grow where walls are always being built. I hope one day you realize that love isn’t a trap, it’s a choice. And I would have chosen you, every time."
Someone told me that when people know they did you wrong, they avoid you. Because some people would rather disappear than apologize.
Distance is easier than accountability. It’s not always about you.
It’s about what they can’t face in themselves.
No revenge. I just want you to remember that I was real with you the whole time.
My intentions were genuine, my feelings were honest, and my care was never fake.
I may not have been perfect, but I never pretended to be something I wasn't. When everything else fades, I hope you remember that what I gave you was real.