Varun Mathur

[Athenaeum Book Club @athenaeumbc]

A powerful scene in the Odyssey happens when Odysseus finally returns to Ithaca after twenty years of war and wandering.

You would expect the story to end with celebration, with the hero coming home, the family reunited, and order restored.

Homer does something far stranger.

Odysseus arrives disguised as a beggar, because Athena warns him that the palace has been taken over by more than a hundred suitors who have been living there for years, eating his food, drinking his wine, and pressuring his wife Penelope to marry one of them.

They believe Odysseus is dead and in their minds the kingdom is already theirs.

So the king of Ithaca walks through his own halls dressed in rags while the men stealing his house sit comfortably at his tables. They mock him, throw scraps at him, and one of them even strikes him, and Odysseus takes it. That is the remarkable part, because the same man who blinded the Cyclops and survived twenty years of disasters now stands quietly while strangers insult him in his own home. Homer tells us his heart burns inside his chest and that he wants to attack them immediately, yet he restrains himself and waits.

Instead of striking, Odysseus studies the room carefully. He counts the men, watches their habits, and quietly observes which servants remain loyal and which have betrayed him. The hero of the Odyssey does something most people cannot do, which is delay revenge until the moment is right.

Eventually Penelope announces a contest and brings out Odysseus’ great bow, declaring that she will marry the man who can string it and shoot an arrow through twelve axe heads lined up in a row. One by one the suitors try and fail, because none of them can even bend the bow. Then the beggar asks for a turn. The suitors laugh at first, but the bow is eventually handed to him.

Odysseus takes it in his hands and strings it effortlessly. Homer says the sound of the bowstring tightening rings through the hall like the note of a swallow. Then he places an arrow on the string and sends it cleanly through all twelve axe heads.

In that moment the beggar disappears. Odysseus turns the bow toward the suitors and reveals who he is.

What follows is one of the most brutal scenes in Greek literature. The doors are sealed and the suitors realize too late that they are trapped inside the hall. Odysseus, his son Telemachus, and two loyal servants begin killing them one by one. There is no escape, no mercy, and no negotiation. The men who spent years consuming another man’s house die inside it.

It is a violent ending, but Homer wants you to understand something important. The real danger to Odysseus was never just the monsters and storms on the long journey home. It was the possibility that someone else might take his place while he was gone. When Odysseus finally returns, he reminds everyone in Ithaca of a simple truth: a man’s home is not truly his unless he is willing to fight for it.

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

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[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

Serious safety & product issue with @HaierIndia. Their geyser started overheating, damaging the connected pipes & forced me to renovate my bathroom. This is unacceptable for a basic household appliance & raises serious safety concerns.

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@vvargxs 2020. Nothing's been the same since Covid.

[Srijan Mahajan @srijan_mahajan]

anyone who has a rough idea about where the world is going knows that ai even without agi leads to massive increases in productivity & democratisation of knowledge

meaning that unless you’re at the cutting edge of your field, there’s no alpha in technical knowledge. in fact there’s probably no alpha in anything except creative ideas, soft skills & how you think about things.

and if everybody sort of understands that this is important for their careers over the next two, three decades, why are kids (who can afford to) doing things that don’t help with this? why are they starting companies, dropping out of school/college to “grind it out?"

creativity, soft skills & connecting the dots are not gonna come from grinding it out, but from varied novel experiences. from making new friends, going to newer places & reading/doing things completely unrelated to your “field”. they’re going to come from doing dumb shit just for the plot, from going to a concert & crying when they play your favourite song. from making bad art & writing a terrible song. from becoming your own person & forming your own voice.

please, please, build an opinion & a point of view because everything else, ai can probably do better than you

[gregorio catarino @gregcatarino1]

“As life goes on, don't you find that all you need is about two real friends and regular supply of books."

- P. G. Wodehouse

(art: Marija Stefanović)

[Paras Chopra @paraschopra]

I have read many books and papers on how to live longer + healthier.

What they say is simple:

Eat whole, unprocessed foods, mix cardio and strength training 5 days a week, get good 7-8 hours sleep, take multivitamin as insurance, get fat % at 20 or below, and invest in relationships.

No hacks. Just fundamentals repeated, day after day.

[taoki @justalexoki]

if my wife died i would probably become gay, just out of respect for her. i don't think i could ever sleep with another woman

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

The traffic is so crazy in Gurgaon even on a Saturday morning, it doesn’t feel worthwhile to step out. Took 40 mins to cover 4 km. #GurgaonIsTheNewBangalore

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@b50 Here for the answers, because, same - zero motivation 😐

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@CNviolations Years later, the kid in front of his therapist: “It all began the day my mother threw me into the pool…”

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@LewisHowes I would read, play board games, spend time with family, and focus on my health. Right now I can barely focus on any one of the above.

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@LukeCoutinho17 Primarily laziness, but long working hours contribute to it as well.

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@DivyaMangotra Okay, we definitely need a tour of this bookshelf :)

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@readswithravi @SahilBloom @neuranne Subscribed

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@DivyaMangotra @Bahrisons_books Their curation is just 🤌🏻

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@readswithravi Fear by Thich Nhat Hanh

[Varun Mathur @varunmathur88]

@DivyaMangotra Shakespeare and Company, Paris.