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My middle son, Ryan, was a skinny 9th grader with a weak arm and virtually no bat
62 mph pulldown
His best swings barely cleared the infield
And he was deceptively slow
He tried out the for the JV team at our high school as a second baseman
His older brother had starred at the same school and was now playing in college
To my knowledge, no one had ever been cut from the JV team
Ryan was cut from the JV team
That night we watched Rudy
My idea
I expected a pity party
Instead, he looks at me and says:
“Dad… we screwed up the position. You know how to train pitchers. Next year I’m not trying out for JV. I’m MAKING VARSITY… as a pitcher.”
I did a double take
Swallowed hard
“Sure, Ry. But that means you work. Every. Single. Day.”
I figured it would last a week
It lasted a year
He lived at The ARMory
Every night
Like a man possessed
He gained 20 pounds (up to 145)
Fastball to 75
Added a changeup
And showed a crazy, unanticipated knack for living in the strike zone
He tried out for Varsity as a pitcher
He made the team
And never played
All season: clean pants, empty stat line
Last game of the year, bases loaded, 2 outs
He finally gets in… to pinch run at first
One pitch
Routine ground ball
Force out at second
Season over
Next year, his velo is up to 82
The staff is loaded
Three weeks left in the season… still hasn’t thrown a pitch
Then comes the promise
Soft opponent on the schedule
Coach says, “Ryan’s starting.”
I clear my calendar
4 pm, my phone rings
“Hey bud, you ready? You nervous?”
“I’m excited… but I’m not nervous.”
Pause
“Because I’m not pitching. Rex is pitching.”
My heart sinks
Rex?
We don’t have a Rex
I’m running through the roster in my head
“Who the heck is Rex?”
“Dad, you’re gonna love him.
Rex is 6’8” and throws 96.”
Ryan is 5’9” and tops at 82
Suddenly, Rex sounds like a better option
I get to the field right as the anthem ends
There’s no 6’8” dude
Just my 5’9” son, grinning
Ryan had invented an alter ego
That night, Rex took the ball
Same 82 mph fastball
Completely different presence
Rex walked like an ace
Breathed like an ace
Stared in like an ace
Attacked the zone like an ace
He refused to throw a ball
Groundout. Pop up. Groundout. Weak fly.
Over and over.
By the 5th inning it was 12–0
He had given up 1 hit
He punches out the last hitter
Game over on a mercy rule
The team dog piles him on the mound
Ryan (a.k.a. Rex) had just thrown a one-hit shutout
Same body
Same arm
Same 82 mph
Different identity
Everyone wants a new pitch, a new drill, a new program
Sometimes the unlock is simpler:
You don’t need a new body
You need a new alter ego
In baseball or in life
Name the version of you who attacks the zone
Then let him (or her) take the ball
Find your Rex
I had a conversation with a Power 4 college coach who’s been doing this for 25+ years.
We were talking about the mentality of high school players during the recruiting process.
Here’s what he told me:
“What these kids don’t realize is…
I don’t care how many followers you have.
I don’t care how many home runs you hit in travel ball.
I don’t care how many offers you have.
I don’t care about your ranking.
I don’t care how hard you can hit a ball.
I don’t care about your metrics.
The only thing I care about is this:
Are you going to produce in between those white lines when we play this season?”
Then he said something else that hit:
“They’ve been so protected that the first time they fail, they quit… or they transfer.”
And here’s the part that matters.
The biggest development mistake I see?
Players don’t plan for failure.
They plan for success.
They visualize success.
They expect success.
But they don’t prepare for 0-4.
They don’t prepare for getting booed.
They don’t prepare for sitting the bench.
They don’t prepare for struggling for 3 weeks.
So when it happens — and it will — they panic.
Instead of executing a pre-made plan, they try to create one while emotional.
That never works.
Failure is coming.
The question is:
Did you already decide how you’re going to handle it?
True Story
I was scouting the state of Georgia and went to a high school game to see a kid that was supposedly a really good prospect.
He was sitting in the dugout while his teammates stretched and threw.
I asked the coach if he was hurt, and he said no, he just doesn't do those things with his teammates.
I said how is his makeup, and his coach said it's awful.
I watched a few innings and left.
The kid was a 1st round talent.
He ended sliding to the 3rd or 4th round and of course didn't sign.
He went to a juco and ended up getting drafted in the first round (big miss by the team that drafted him).
One problem after another in the minor leagues, but they gave him a shot in the big leagues, and he failed miserably, then quit.
A lot of these kids will let you know who they are before the game even starts.
Makeup matters.
I’m blessed and excited to announce my commitment to Misericordia University to continue my academic and athletic journey! Grateful for my family, coaches, and Coach Egbert and Coach Horne for this opportunity. #GoCougars@Misericordia_BB@BWBaseball1@VASharks@d1graphicsco
Great share…. Pressure is real. Big league superstars feel it too. Listen to Mookie talk about how he was battling his nerves at the end of the game. Big take away with the self talk and then refers to all the work put in on the back fields before the season paying off for his elite defense. Love it!
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@DezBryant You lose the team and your culture. Best players play. If it’s even you play the kid who is invested in the TEAM and has put the work in with his teammates. TEAM FIRST always!!!!! There is No Entitlement!!!
College Coaches, this young man can flat out anchor your outfield! Can fly, and has a great bat and arm! Prototype Leadoff Hitter with speed to burn!!! High Character with big upside!
Character Wins……….It’s that simple. If you have a group of High Character people on your roster, you have a chance to do something special together.
Build around Character, with a Passion for the Game, and Talent…..and watch what happens.
@RealCJ10 Chipper, you and the rest of the old school guys know that swing and miss doesn’t win championships…..Hopefully the trend of power only focus begins to dwindle so the youth can learn how to become all-around hitters again!