i coparent my dog with my ex which has made me realize how difficult this must be when children are involved
medications, medical appointments, activity updates, schedules, and a constant stream of decisions that require two people to stay on the same page
do you trust them to figure out what needs to be done if they canโt get ahold of you? can you communicate without every conversation becoming an argument? can you make decisions together when things arenโt clear?
part of being a parent is raising a child but other part is navigating a lifelong partnership with someone youโll be tied to forever
did you pick the right person? maybe not romantically. maybe that part doesnโt last
but did you pick the right person to make big decisions?
thatโs the actual important question