Some years back, there was a man who was always asking when I would get married.
It was always annoying to me, because he never stopped talking about it.
He was trying to put pressure on me, when he was barely able to feed his wife & the four kids that he had.
I will never advice any young man to jump into marriage without adequate preparation.
Marriage or having kids is not a game you can up and quit, your life go just spoil.
Was invited for a wedding, I calculated what it would cost me from fabric to sewing to travelling down to Ibadan. I was already looking at 100k. I called the person to send me his account because I wouldn't be able to show. The guy refused to send it and said “guy dem never born you well make you no come my wedding”
In my head, I said sogun laye ni? 😂
bought two plots of lands at ikorodu
another two plots at ibeju lekki
one plot at lekki phase 2
i have two haul trailers that earn me over 200k daily
invested in a pos business that earns me an extra 7k daily.
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My younger brother got paid ₦650,000 on the 27th of last month. His first real salary.
Yesterday morning, his wife of six months posted a new wig, a new iPhone, and a cake that said “soft life loading.”
By evening, he called me and said, “I don’t know who is funding my wife’s lifestyle, because obviously it is not me and my ₦650,000.”
He asked me if he could ask her or check her phone.
I told him to just ask her, and also check her phone and bank app before he sleeps in that house again.
A man who is afraid to check his own wife’s phone is not married; he’s living with a stranger.
One of the things I'm learning in marriage is this "private time" that men need.
Yesterday, my husband became cranky after work stress plus he couldn't get something done online with GTBank. I quickly packed the children inside a room and read a book together. He slept off in his alone time and woke up his normal self again.
Earlier in our marriage, I would get upset about this. Thank God for growth 🙏
A friend of mine has been living in the UK for about six years. He has a wife and four children in Nigeria.
For some time now, he has been having disturbing dreams where he sees himself dying in the UK. Because of this, he started thinking about what would happen to his family if anything ever happened to him.
This January, he asked his wife to open a bank account in her name. After she opened it, she sent him the account details, and he transferred ₦50 million into the account.
He received the transaction alert in his email, while she received an SMS alert on her phone.