People hate things that contradict their deeply-held beliefs. But since ideas that contradict deeply-held beliefs are the most interesting (see the history of physics for example), anyone on the hunt for interesting ideas will tend to offend a lot of people.
People who brag about being "Brutally honest" are usually more interested in being brutal than they are in being honest. Of course we should hold honesty as an extremely high value. But let's also be tactful and empathetic *while* we're being honest.
Acknowledging the weaknesses of your argument makes it stronger.
Admitting flaws signals confidence and builds credibility: it shows you care more about getting it right than proving you're right.
If you think your case has no flaws, your thinking is flawed.
#WednesdayWisdom
Being unfiltered is not a sign of authenticity. It's a sign of low self-control.
Impulsive leadership is trusting your gut and shooting from the hip.
Disciplined leadership is taking the time to consider the impact of your actions on others.
#FridayFeeling
"Emphasize values over rules. #Rules set limits that teach children to adopt a fixed view of the world. #Values encourage children to internalize principles for themselves." -@AdamMGrant#originals#AdamGrant