i get so sad going back to my empty place after a night with my friends, i'm very certain we're meant to fall asleep in a pile together like a litter of puppies
@pcosprincess22@evemmore my mom had me at 20. one grandma died a few years before i was born, one grandpa died when i was 7. age of the mother doesn't matter as much, people die either way from various reasons and you can't possibly predict it. that's just life.
@mehreganzare@sophiatheepers@ma1ybe rape victims often take their own life. they might not function the same ever again, it's like being dead in a living body. have those men thought about it? no, they didn't care. they don't deserve to live.
that part i can excuse, from the way it's presented. never in a million years would he have imagined it would be real and he said some dumb shit half-serious in the moment without thinking. fine. it's everything that came AFTER that makes him a monster.
the people who defend bear forget that he knew something was wrong from the START which is why he repeatedly lied to everyone around him. for example after the FIRST NIGHT he tells ian he didn’t sleep next to her but on the floor. that is a lie. he moved from the floor to the bed
spent so much time and strength fighting for the people closest to her to see that this wasn’t her, and absolutely no one tried to help in the slightest. after this she went home with her “captor” and no one batted and eyelash, called the cops, NOTHING. fucking heartbreaking.