Ogbeni Victor

Aiye nlo, A n to....
MAN_U❤️

[Ogbeni Victor @vessPapi1]

@akemitan_ Can I commission you for some model edit?

[Hlovo @hlovo_]

“I cook for my husband”= You’re a slave

“We split the bills”= Your husband is useless

“I spoil my wife”= You’re a simp

“I dress modestly”= You’re in an abusive marriage

“My wife and I make decisions together”= You’re not a real man

“I can’t do random nights out because I’m married” = You’re husband/wife is controlling

“My wife earns more than me”= You’re a useless leech

“My husband is the breadwinner”= You have no say since you bring nothing to the table

“I don’t need a male/female bestie because I’m married”= Your partner is insecure

This is how some of you see the world 😂

Y’all are far too pathetic and miserable to really understand what goes into making a marriage successful. Happy couples should keep it to themselves because you guys will find a fault in everything they do.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Let me enlighten you all on something you wouldn't be taught ANYWHERE. This might shock many of you who would care to read.... but read if you would. Scroll past if you won't. Your decision.

Men were originally designed by the Creator to be physical protectors of women and the physical world, providers, they were built for it all. This is why they are the more rugged gender.

To fulfill this, the man was wired to have more emotional, mental and physical strength while woman was the much finer, delicate and spiritual gender, so that man, in his daily bustling to physically transform this world into a heaven on earth through his nature, he would always gaze at woman and be reminded of the home where he came from, never to forget the path that leads home while he hustles.

Any man who is WEAK (mentally, emotionally or physically) therefore naturally CANNOT be respected by woman, even if she wouldn't know why and even if she temporarily pretends to respect him.....cos her spirit knows and senses the truth, what should be.

But woman herself, in her role, also became something else, totally oppositely different from what was originally designed, orchestrated by no other mischievous being than LUCIFER himself.

All Lucifer wanted to prove to the Almighty during his assignment to enlighten man (Yes, he was the Prince of Enlightenment and this is why he was called Son of the Morning or the Morning Star, ages ago) was that He (the Almighty) was being TOO PATIENT and Merciful with these creatures (humans).

In his opinion, the Almighty was supposed to let the strong humans who passed his post enlightenment test go back to paradise and let the "disgustingly" weak ones perish.

He was impatient and didn't understand Divine Omniscient Love and therefore got angry with his Creator's rejection of his request. He therefore took laws into his own hands and cut off communication with the heights where he came from, with the Almighty. He stopped listening to instructions to have patience with these creatures of Creation.

Naturally, with his new attitude and disconnection from his source, he became denser and sank below with each move and decision he made afterwards. Till he sank to unimaginable depths. But he still thinks he is right and the Almighty is wrong. All he wants is to prove his point and laugh at the Almighty.

But Divine Omniscience? Nothing can beat it.

So, as a crafty and intelligent Being he was, Lucifer used WOMAN. The more sensitive and psychic of the species. Instead of that loving and true enlightenment, he decided to make woman (who was initially totally innocent and unaware), aware of her PHYSICAL CHARM on men and how she can appropriate it towards controlling men and how she can draw his attention to her and make him do anything she wishes and have everything enjoyable on earth through him. This was never the plan.

Woman tried it. It worked. She tasted the strategy and she loved it. She continued in it and man was too weak to say NO! He ate of the fruit of the tree of knowledge. THE APPLE. The deadly APPLE!

This is the meaning of the allegorical story told in the Bible and this is gow the fall of man took an unprecedented speed and thickened till today.

Woman and Man built on the trigger that Lucifer made and took it to depths that even Lucifer didn't expect. He was unexpectedly successful as he feels satisfied that he is making his point to God on how undeserving we are of patience and love.

All he needed to do was pick woman and turn her. The rest was history. But Lucifer still doesn't understand Divine Omnipotence and Omniscience. Also, Lucifer knows his fate and his judgment but he has sworn that he is not going down alone.

I would have gone into the consequences of everything and how it all ends but this would deviate far from the context in which i am responding to.

[Ogbeni Victor @vessPapi1]

@Still_Nia Similar situation but completely checked out too, auditioning 3 as replacements. 👍🏼
No be me you go con paint as someone wey dey chase you.

[khaleesi🧍🏽‍♀️ @shelovesore]

Lmao I have 2.
Mother Teresa and Mahatma Gandhi.

Mother Teresa let dying patients be treated with blunt reused needles, had a mortality rate about 40% in her clinics and when she was confronted about the conditions, said there’s something beautiful in seeing the poor accept their lot, and to suffer it like Christ’s Passion. Doctors called her facilities “homes for the dying”. And cancer patients were given aspirin for pain.

Gandhi too, the face of universal peace, the person that said “be the change you wish to see”, spent years in South Africa describing Black Africans as “savage”, “dirty” and living like animals. He campaigned actively to prove to British rulers that Indians were superior to native Black Africans. He also organized a brigade to help suppress a Zulu uprising. His defenders say he evolved. Maybe.

Nobody likes to talk about the entire sides of history.

And these are their summarized versions btw.

[DAX @thissdax]

IF YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW TO TRADE BUT STILL STRUGGLE.

This is what you need to study,Be honest with yourself here:👇

✒︎Your losses: especially the ones where you didn’t follow your rules. Why didn’t the trade play out? What did you do wrong?

✒︎Last week’s mistakes: what keeps repeating?

✒︎Your wins : why did the trade play out? What can you learn so you keep doing it?

✒︎Your missed trades : why did you miss them? Fear? Hesitation? Not at your charts?

✒︎Your break-even trades : what exactly happened there?

✒︎Your equity curve : why are you profitable on TradingView but not on MT5? That gap is telling you something.

✒︎Greed check : your trade played out, but you wanted more from the market and gave it back. Was that you?

✒︎Lack of confidence? Backtest everyday

For every problem you find, ask yourself: what’s the solution?

Don't be a trader with colored charts and a laptop with nothing to show for it, start taking note of your mistakes.

You must make it!

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

I have one piece to share.

I hope all these TL conversations do not poison your heart.

I hope you're not training your mindspace to start choosing partners from a place of fear, or lowered likelihood to cheat. Ask Israel Juju.

These are faulty compasses.

Churchgoers cheat. Atheists cheat. Hijab wielders cheat.

Virgins cheat. Adelebos cheat. 20s cheat. 30s cheat. 40s cheat.

I hope the factors that calibrate your values, are not from Twitter thinkpieces but are strengthened offline. Else, you will end up as a box of ruin.

My safest predicators for relationships are:

- brackets,
- reciprocity.

If you're doing well financially, box within potentials like you doing well financially. Don't be a 7fig earning techie & you'll be hunting smallies struggling with 200L carryover in Laspotech.

Mental brackets. Intellectual brackets. Financial brackets. Exposure brackets.

One of my theories as to why, people (read men) scale way below these brackets is because they're scripting scenarios for control. They're hunting "bendable" women. Chief, she won't be naive forever - but I'll expand on this, some other time.

Be big on reciprocity. As you're doing for your partner in the early weeks, if they like you they would be doing as much.

Using the filters of brackets and reciprocity, are safer predicators than fear and paranoia.

[Joseph Brendan @Joe_brendan_]

This is the same thing I tell young boys

Person for gwags then in 2011 pick 400k USD.
Yahoo boys back then dey even clean and speak better English no be these ones wey dey say "hw ws ur nyt"

I always tell young boys to bend down and do something long term. Money is the weakest thing to own. You can have 2 Billion today and 0 Naira in 4 years. Money is extremely weak. But you are not. What you can do is not weak

"I go cash out, I go buy 5 houses, I go buy 5 bolt, I go invest, etc" All na wash.

The moment the income stops coming, I tell you, you will sell all those houses and cars. All of them go enter market because lifestyle wey you don dey used to go begin affect you.

Here is a secret too,
You cannot use money to make a business successful. A business needs talent and direction from the owner first to survive. Money is secondary

So if you think you won't start from scratch in learning a business and yahoo money will make a business successful for you, You will laugh at yourself

Go to school, come out with a first class or
Learn a skill and be the 1% with that skill.
You will be sorted

[F E E Z @Feeztm]

You don’t need all those hard drugs: jekomó and lacoco before match bro.

Just stay away from sugar and stay close to 👇🏽

• Watermelon
• Tigernuts
• Walnut
• Coconut water
• Honey
• Cinnamon
• Banana
• Dark chocolate

Na the babe go dey beg you.

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Let me tell you why you cannot satisfy a woman with your money and also why you cannot use your bumbum to tame a man forever.

First Reason is HEDONISTIC ADAPTATION

It’s a concept I fell in love with the very moment I learnt. And it simply emphasizes how that no matter how much we want something, the moment we have it, it becomes normal to us.

A good example of this for men who think they can earn the submission of a woman with provision is how that no matter what you provide and how much you do, your woman would always come to get used to it. I mean, we all saw Regina Daniels ask New Nwoko what he had done for her…

If you think money will keep someone loyal, time will humble you. People get used to comfort very quickly.

For women who think their bumbum is the be all end all, after a man sleeps with you 7 times, there’s actually going to be nothing about your body that would entice him the way it did the first time. This is especially true if he didn’t crack your hymen open. And for many men, the moment they nut once that’s all.

Desire that is only based on the body often fades once familiarity enters.

Second Reason YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE GENUINE DESIRE

You cannot force love by being useful…
You cannot buy respect by over-giving…
You cannot earn genuine affection by performing endlessly…

People love and like what they want regardless of what you do and who you are. It’s why it’s a fool’s errand trying to win women or men over with your actions or gifts.

A person can appreciate your efforts and still not love you, someone can enjoy your benefits and still not desire you, someone can accept your sacrifices and still never choose you. That’s why ThatCursedGirl was quick to tell us she would never be able to house her husband even if he only got her Lexus weeks before the conversation started.

People comfortable in their own skin and with a conscience of their own wouldn’t be able to bring themselves to marry or commit to you simply because of your actions

It would require their soul actually choosing you as there would always be better people than you. And they would meet them.

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What I’m saying in essence is Simple.

Build value…
Be generous…
Be attractive…
Be well-rounded…
But never confuse these things for the foundation of love.

Because at the end of the day, the right person will not stay because of what you provide or the shape of your bumbum. They will stay even after they’ve seen you finish because, in the deepest part of themselves, they have chosen you.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Your desire for relationship or friendship is not more important than his desire for sex. You both want different things. The relationship or friendship you want from him, he wants from other people. The sex he wants from you, you want from other people.

It is okay for anyone to walk away.

[Techriz💯📈 @Techriztm]

Most traders think psychology is just “control your emotions.”
It’s deeper than that.

Trading psychology is the quality of decisions you make under uncertainty.

Can you stay patient when nothing is clear?
Can you execute when your setup appears without fear?
Can you take a loss without revenge trading?
Can you follow your plan when greed tells you to overstay?

That is psychology.

A bad mindset doesn’t only show in emotions.
It shows in:
• Overtrading
• Moving stop loss
• Entering early
• Ignoring confirmations
• Risking too much
• Chasing after losses
• Closing winners too soon

How to improve your psychology:

▫️Manage your risk
When the money at stake is too high for your mind, emotions take over. Risk appropriately and think clearer.

▫️Trade only clear setups
Random entries create stress. Clean setups build confidence.

▫️Accept losses before entering
Every trade can lose. Once you accept that, losses hurt less and decisions improve.
Journal your behavior

▫️Don’t only record profits.
Record mistakes, emotions, impatience, greed, fear. Patterns will expose themselves.
Detach from daily results

▫️One day means nothing. Consistency is built over many trades, not one session.
Build discipline off the chart

If you can’t control small habits in life, it becomes harder to control yourself in the market.

The market is not only testing your strategy.
It is testing your character every single day.

GM💜

[k @alfkkifine]

The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.

[Lex 🔌📈 @lex_consults]

I AM ABOUT TO WALK INTO THE MOST ABUNDANT BALANCED WEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL PERIOD OF MY LIFE.

I NATURALLY ATTRACT GOOD FORTUNE, AND I AM WEALTHY IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE.

I GIVE MYSELF PERMISSION TO PROSPER, AND I HAVE THE POWER TO BUILD THE LIFE THAT I DESIRE.

AMEN

[Kalu Aja @FinPlanKaluAja1]

1. Drink water, put a bottle by your bedside, drink when you wake

2. Ask your friend abroad to buy your multi-vitamins. Take them daily

3. Stop taking soda and “juice”, eat the fruit with the pulp, chew an orange, don't drink orange juice.

4. Slow down on the carbs, garri, jollef and amala, and do more protein. Termites are high in protein if you can't afford beef. ( I didn't stutter)

5. Sleep longer, weekends are for sleep, not just parties and watching football.

6. Take your holidays, do not exchange them for cash and work all year round. Go to a village or slow area for a holiday once in a while to decouple. Travelling to the UK or Dubai to shop in malls and eat a burger is not a holiday

7. Slow down on salt and sugar, think more of ginger and turmeric

8. Eat suya, eat the vegetables, onions and tomatoes too, all join

9. Slow down on white bread, pasta, etc. Brown rice 👍 is Ofada rice brown? Does anyone know?

10. Have sex regularly. A blow job is not sex

11. Stretch, walk, move. Yoga is good.

12. Be happy, watch comedies, laugh

13. Have an emergency fund. Looking for urgent N10,000 on “Tuesday” will cause hypertension faster than salt.

14. Buy a plant, have a garden, sha touch soil once in a while

15. Be careful with the news you listen to, don't be naive, but don't dwell in the comfort of mockers

16. Fall in love, not mandatory but recommended. Yes, you can love the company of someone, all join.

17. Use deodorant, not Antiperspirants.

18. Guys, change your boxers daily, even if they do not smell. A beard has to be combed and maintained. It's not fallow land

19. Ladies, you also look beautiful without a wig or nail extensions, plus you save money 😉

20. Don't bleach your skin

This is financial advice

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

too real cos night brushing does the real work... all day you eat, drink and build up bacteria and if you go to sleep without brushing, you’re giving that bacteria hours to sit and damage your teeth while your mouth is dry... morning brushing is more about fresh breath but night brushing is what actually protects your teeth.

[Dr. Olawale Ogunlana @doctorwalesmd]

Health benefits of regular s£xual intercourse in men. Repost, like, share, and save for later.

[Nathan ✰ @Just1Nathann_]

People notice these things more than you realize:

1. Move slower. Don’t rush your movements. Slower actions equal confidence and control.

2. Talk less. Listen more. People feel more drawn to someone who actually listens.

3. Have a life outside people. Be busy with your own goals.

4. Fix your posture. A straight back and relaxed shoulders instantly make you look more confident.

5. Smell good consistently. Not just perfume, but clean clothes and body. People remember scent more than looks.

6. Control your reactions. Don’t overreact emotionally. Calmness is power.

7. Improve your voice tone. Speak clearly, not too fast. A relaxed tone helps.

8. Limit how much you explain yourself. Not everything needs justification.

9. Take care of small details: Clean shoes, trimmed nails, fresh haircut.

[Prince Fynn @Prince_Fynnz]

Dear men,

1. Watermelon and beetroots give you erection.

2. Eggs and garlic boost your Testosterone levels.

3. Kegel exercises and maca root give you stamina.

4. Avocado and banana give you strength.

5. Pomegranates and oysters increase your sex drive.

6. Bitterkola and coconut make you last longer.

7. Drinking 3 litres of water and sleeping for 8 hours a day will boost your metabolism.

8. Tigernuts and dates boost your performance.

9. Eat these daily to naturally boost your overall sexual health.

Repost for others to learn!

[Oluwatimileyin✨🦋 @Timmysofine]

1. I am fascinated by a cognitive glitch called "Attention Residue."

When you switch tasks like pausing deep work to check one message, your brain doesn't instantly pivot.

It leaves a fragment of cognitive RAM running the previous app.

By 2 PM, your CPU is overheating from 40 invisible open loops.

You aren't tired from working. You are exhausted from constantly rebooting the system.

2. The ocean isn’t blue. It’s just the last surviving color of sunlight.

Water is mostly transparent, but when sunlight hits the ocean, different colors get absorbed at different depths. Reds disappear first, then oranges and yellows. Blue travels the deepest, so it’s the color that ends up scattering through the water, which our eyes perceive.

That’s why when it’s stormy, the ocean looks darker or grayish… because the blueness of the ocean depends on the light-ness of sunlight.

3. Meta-cognition, synoptic cognition and pattern weaving.

Meta-cognition is simply thinking about your thinking. It’s a skill you can train. When you develop it, you can step outside your own thought process, audit how you’re reasoning, and even adjust your thinking in real time.

4. Coffee beans are actually the seeds from a coffee cherry which is a fruit. So coffee is technically classified as a fruit drink

5. There is something called retrograde flow when babies directly breastfeed. It’s basically baby backwash. But their saliva goes back into the mom’s nipple and trigger her immune response if there is any sort of infection (virus or bacteria or whatever). Then the moms immune system starts creating antibodies to the baby’s infection typically the same day so then when baby nurses again, there are antibodies directly against their infection going into them via breastmilk to help them fight it off

6. Ever heard of the pratfall effect? Competent people are more liked when they make small mistakes or expose a flaw. So go ahead, show your vulnerability!